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  • 1st April 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „Family and systemic solutions for illness and crisis in family”

    1st April 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „Family and systemic solutions for illness and crisis in family”

    This workshop is aimed at everyone with health problems or undergoing a crisis in the family. We have written extensively about relationships between illness and past or current events in family in many articles (LINK).

    It should be mentioned that for the prophylaxis of many cancers and tumours it is important to work through traumas and difficulties, both personal and familial.

    During the workshop we will inspect what the participants think about themselves and their lifes. We will propose how change the way of thinking so that it is in service of health and solving crisis in family and relationships.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Examples of crisis in a family:

    1. An example of crisis in family is a situation when one of the parents is not present in th family, or is present very little. If the present parent falls ill then the adult child taking care of the parent delays shaping own life as long as the parent is alive.

    2. An example of an unconscious loyalty to the family is failure at school. “A good son” or a “good daughter” cannot surpass his or her parent’s education level. Such son or daughter may be late for an important exam, forget ID or even to studying, give back an empty test, have an accident during the day of the exam or simply not pass. Such failure may seem irrational, but at the same time may be a good solution form the perspective of the family: e.g. such without higher education he or her will not leave the town and will take care of the parents.

    3. Often the reason of crisis is jealousy between siblings, when one of the siblings has supposedly better health or greater successes in life, functions better in life.

    4. An other form of the same crisis is a situation when one of the siblings barely functions and other is financially successful and is perceived as more capable and having easier life.
    Often there is an unspoken rule in the family to support the unsuccessful members with money and special treatment because “they have a difficult life”. The supposedly healthy sibling does not have the right to have own crisis: to need money, support or to not indefinitely take interest in life of the less capable sibling. If the healthy children dare to be successful or think differently to the rest of the family they are often attacked. These attack may take various forms: jealousy, comparing, envy or thinking that success simply falls into someone laps.

    5. Divorce of a sibling is yet another example of a crisis in the family. When one of the siblings gets divorced, usually support from other siblings and members of the family is required. But their reactions may vary. When members of the family are silent it often means that they do not support the decision, they think “the spouse was such a good man or woman, we cannot condemn him or her”.

    During the workshop we will look to resolve similar situations.”.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone working with families and health issues.
      Anyone looking for help, for themselves and their closests.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    1 April 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Therapeutic and Addiction Group: “Find your own strength”

    Therapeutic and Addiction Group: “Find your own strength”

    We are all dependent on our way of viewing the world.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    Often, as a result of their effective reduction, the addict is not conscious of these feeling. Equally often the addict delegates their feeleings on the neighbourhood

    The others are not responsible for feelings of the addicted person. On the contrary, we are responsible for our actions. We can look for the source of the addiction at the deeper levels than our life (e.g. in the family history). And yet it does not change the fact that we ourselves are responsible for looking for solutions.

    What is more nobody can find them for us. We are responsible for stopping the anger, the abuse of power and sex. We are responsible for our destructive relationships, for identifying with someone else’s restrictive views, for eating and drinking our anger, failure or depression. We are responsible for our inner destruction which we suppress with addiction and for all of the consequences of depending on the alcohol, sex, etc.

    The most important dynamic of addiction is that it consumes more and more time. Frequency and intensity of the addiction increases during the life.

    Then comes the time when the intensity of the addiction, together with the substance tolerance decreases. The substance addition (alcohol, medicine, psychoactive drugs) or behavioural addiction (e.g. from anger, partner, sex, shopping) may transition into different kind of addiction. For example an alcohol addict stops drinking and start searching for intense sexual relationships. A person who often gets angry and erupts may become dependent on someone who know how to tame this anger.

    People with high levels of perfectionism (understood as a striving for the ideal and perfect) may develop various obsession, phobias and depressive states. Perfectionist women more often suffer form eating disorders: e.g. alternating between losing and gaining weight or orthorexia.

    Nevertheless the addict remains in the state of limited awareness of own actions.

    To work on the addiction, as we understand it in Aditus, means to create an opportunity for clients to accesses the lost part of theirselves. During the therapy clients rebuilds their own thought, feelings, behaviours in order to live a fuller life.

    Working on the addiction tolerates no compromises, as the healthy life accepts no half-truths and half-measures. Gradually the client sees own life more and more realistically, and handles it better thanks to the clearer vision.

    If you want to have an appropriate, stable and high self-esteem we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you want to feel that you have a real impact on your life we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you value independence and inner peace we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If your child is addicted to phone, internet or is otherwise overwhelming we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    DATES:

    The work of the addiction therapy group meeting include 7 meetings:

    4 March; 25 March; 22 April; 6 May; 27 May; 17 June; 8 July

    Who is the workshop for:

      Everyone determined to change,
      Everyone whose energy goes to waste on alcohol, eating, sex or other addiction.

    Terms of participation :

      Participation in all meetings.
      Prepayment for participation in the meetings of the group in the amount of 250 zł (paid in person or by bank transfer 7 days before the date of commencement of the group.
      Adherence to the principles of therapeutic contract.
      Consulting a psychiatrist or other specialist if necessary.
     If the participant cancels their participation later than 48h before the date of start of the group meetings the payments paid so far won’t be reimbursed.
      Taking responsibility for your treatment.

  • 21st January 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „How to survive marriage crisis and stay sane?”

    21st January 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „How to survive marriage crisis and stay sane?”

    A crisis may be very helpful for the development of a relationship. Being in “golden cage” is a state when relationship is still profitable, but at the same time spouses are stuck. “In golden cage everything is fine” while simultaneous there is a substantial unhappiness. We get sick, drink and gain weight. Every relationship entails submission of some aspects of life to the partner, yet the partners should still maintain own autonomy. It is not true that you can be in relationship and maintain self-determination. Even if it is only a sexual relationship it affects other aspects of life: emotional, societal, financial, spiritual, intellectual. It is common for a woman to be dependent financially on her husband.

    Famous wars have been and still are fought over whose family of origin is better. Some of them are so divided and dispersed that they are not able to constructively support the young couple in developing as a relationship and a family.

    A spouse is always compared to the mother, for example a wife may adore her husband just as his mother did. In such relationship the starting capital given to a husband by his wife won’t be real for a long time, it will be to large. A marital crisis may restore the proper level of adoration for the man.
    Whether people enter into sexual relationship depends on their ability to read each others sexual signs.

    We choose partners in order either to avoid what we have left in our family house or because the partner reminds us of it. If a pattern appears according to which one of the side provides more financially or emotionally manifests itself early, it will likely be consolidate with time.

    THE WORKSHOP IS AIMED AT ANYONE READY TO WORK WITH TOPICS SUCH AS:

      One of the sides in the relationship want the child, the other does not.
      How to maintain a balance when one of the partners is very successful professionally or financially?
      The world-view differences between partners and spouses.
      Miscarriages, abortions and loss of child as a sign of problems in the marriage.
      Child’s somatic, neurological and psychological illness and the marital relationship.
      Somatic, neurological and psychological illness of spouses or other family members and the marital relationship.
      Alpha male, alpha female.
      Partner’s addiction to sex, anger, shopping, alcohol, video games and the marriage.
      When a divorce is a good solution for the relationship and family?
      How to prepare oneself for the divorce?

    The workshop builds on Bert Hellinger’s concept of systemic constellations. Currently our methods also incorporate: working with the Life Time Line, Total Biology, perinatal cycle and client’s mother cell.

    DATE:

    21 January 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • 22.10.2022 Systemic constellation workshop: “Perfectionism – how to regain freedom of choice?”

    22.10.2022 Systemic constellation workshop: “Perfectionism – how to regain freedom of choice?”

    During the systemic constellations workshop we will present examples of excessive perfectionist behaviours. We will answer the question when an excessive perfectionist person should seek help.

    The pattern of perfectionism, exhibits itself in the fact the a person either does everything perfectly or not at all. It is present in sport, relationships, professional life and its other parts.

    We will discuss ancestral messages supporting perfectionism. We will give examples of events in family life accompanying perfectionist behaviours. During the workshop we will seek to look at the unaccepted, excluded parts of ourselves.

    Perfectionism remarkably focuses us on mistakes, a perfectionist person fears making one. At the ancestral level perfectionism is a memory of somebody losing their way in life, of making a wrong choice. This decision was painful and destructive for a member of the family or other people. If we are on the right path we are active and energetic, we withdraw from destructive behaviours. We admit to mistakes and recognize unrealistic expectations and in consequence are able to withdraw from harmful relationships.

    Healthy family knows that its every member has to work though their own shame, and in doing so recognize own limitations.

    Such a family knows that every family has its own secrets, mysteries and unspoken stories. These ancestral stories are similar to antique furniture: broken and stuffed in a basement, yet capable of enriching the interior after a renovation.

    When a true family history is reconstructed all its members can breathe a sigh of relief ad regain strength. Perfectionist patterns are no longer needed.

    All forms of double morality, rigidity and contradiction between feeling, thoughts and actions are warnings signs and should compel us to self-improvement.

    DATE:

    22 October 2022, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU IF:

      You are interested in personal develepment,
      You want to work on a theme of personal life, choice of right education or development,
      You want to work for your children and relationhip with them or in the area of health.

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.
      Participation in the whole workshop is required.

  • Therapeutic Group: “Find your own strength”

    Therapeutic Group: “Find your own strength”

    We are all dependent on our way of viewing the world.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    Often, as a result of their effective reduction, the addict is not conscious of these feeling. Equally often the addict delegates their feeleings on the neighbourhood

    The others are not responsible for feelings of the addicted person. On the contrary, we are responsible for our actions. We can look for the source of the addiction at the deeper levels than our life (e.g. in the family history). And yet it does not change the fact that we ourselves are responsible for looking for solutions.

    What is more nobody can find them for us. We are responsible for stopping the anger, the abuse of power and sex. We are responsible for our destructive relationships, for identifying with someone else’s restrictive views, for eating and drinking our anger, failure or depression. We are responsible for our inner destruction which we suppress with addiction and for all of the consequences of depending on the alcohol, sex, etc.

    The most important dynamic of addiction is that it consumes more and more time. Frequency and intensity of the addiction increases during the life.

    Then comes the time when the intensity of the addiction, together with the substance tolerance decreases. The substance addition (alcohol, medicine, psychoactive drugs) or behavioural addiction (e.g. from anger, partner, sex, shopping) may transition into different kind of addiction. For example an alcohol addict stops drinking and start searching for intense sexual relationships. A person who often gets angry and erupts may become dependent on someone who know how to tame this anger.

    People with high levels of perfectionism (understood as a striving for the ideal and perfect) may develop various obsession, phobias and depressive states. Perfectionist women more often suffer form eating disorders: e.g. alternating between losing and gaining weight or orthorexia.

    Nevertheless the addict remains in the state of limited awareness of own actions.

    To work on the addiction, as we understand it in Aditus, means to create an opportunity for clients to accesses the lost part of theirselves. During the therapy clients rebuilds their own thought, feelings, behaviours in order to live a fuller life.

    Working on the addiction tolerates no compromises, as the healthy life accepts no half-truths and half-measures. Gradually the client sees own life more and more realistically, and handles it better thanks to the clearer vision.

    If you want to have an appropriate, stable and high self-esteem we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you want to feel that you have a real impact on your life we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you value independence and inner peace we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If your child is addicted to phone, internet or is otherwise overwhelming we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    DATES:

    The work of the addiction therapy group meeting include 7 meetings:

    3 September; 24 September; 15 October; 5 November; 26 November; 17 December; 7 January 2023

    Who is the workshop for:

      Everyone determined to change,
      Everyone whose energy goes to waste on alcohol, eating, sex or other addiction.

    Terms of participation :

      Participation in all meetings.
      Prepayment for participation in the meetings of the group in the amount of 250 zł (paid in person or by bank transfer 7 days before the date of commencement of the group.
      Adherence to the principles of therapeutic contract.
      Consulting a psychiatrist or other specialist if necessary.
     If the participant cancels their participation later than 48h before the date of start of the group meetings the payments paid so far won’t be reimbursed.
      Taking responsibility for your treatment.

  • Warsztat 20.08.2022 “Systemic constellation workshop in Warsaw “Father and children development”

    Warsztat 20.08.2022 “Systemic constellation workshop in Warsaw “Father and children development”

    How the father is and how he functions often determinates how the family is being perceived in the social
    environment. If the father has good social competences, communicates with his neighbours and his
    family, if he represents his family outside well, he supports them, then the child is well protected.
    Then the child can develop own potential. Such father has great social power.
    For the child’s mental health it is not only important, how the father functions in real live but also how
    much he has integrated his unconscious aspects. One ways to answer this question is to consider, whether
    the father is addicted to alcohol, sex, power, anger or religion.

    It is important, whether the father is mentally balanced, whether he can stay calm in difficult situations
    and manage his anger towards his/the children. Even adult children perceive impulsive, uncontrollable
    behavior of their parents as expression of bad will: “if only my father wanted to, he would be able to”.

    An important aspect for the men as a father is whether he has a job which allows him to support his
    family without excessive stress.
    The father is an model of manhood. How the father communicates with the mother, the way he treats her
    sets the basic example for the child. This example includes the relationship between the parents during the
    day and in the night, in terms of their sexual relationship.
    It is important, who the father is on the spiritual level, what his values are. How he perceives the world
    and what he feels responsible for.
    What are his core values?:money, prestige, domination, cooperation, submission, survival, imitation
    behavior, development.

    Recently, a lot has been said about conscious presence of the father in the life of children and about his
    active engagement in the family life.
    Even if the parents are divorced or getting divorced the father’s presence in child’s life is considered
    important. It is extremely hard for the children whose parents getting divorce, if their parents are upset
    and feel aversion.
    Then each parent may unconsciously invite the children to the role of trustees or a substitute partners.
    Such children, who act as trustees of one of the parents find it more easy to enter into incestuous
    relationship with their own children.

    An adult women once asked during the workshop “Is it normal, that as a child I wanted to sleep with my
    father?” Therapist answered “the child may have the wish to sleep with the father, there is nothing wrong
    with it, but it is the father’s role to set the boundaries and refuse the daughter”
    Grown up children who are fighting with their own father in fact have never separated from him. To
    separate from own father means to know him well, to isolate from him, to not repeat that which doesn’t
    work for him.

    Workshop participants
    • Parents, who wants to do work for their children
    • Adults interested in the topic of the father-child relationship
    • Clients who would like to work with a different theme are welcome
    The proposed workshop is based on the idea of Bert’s Hellinger family constellations, but nowadays
    our work is enriched by several therapeutic methods such as: working with Life Time Line, knowledge
    of Total Biology, perinatal cycle, working with client’s mother cell.

     

    Terms of Participation:
    • Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment
      is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop
      doby przed terminem warsztatu, to zaliczka nie podlega zwrotowi.
    • Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data,
      refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
    • Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private
      paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
    • Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither
      them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period
      before and after the workshop.
    • Participation in the whole workshop is required.

     

    Date:
    20 August 2022, Saturday 10:00-18:00
  • 29.01.2022 Systemic constellations workshop: “My relationship – my mirror. Where will my relationship take me?”

    29.01.2022 Systemic constellations workshop: “My relationship – my mirror. Where will my relationship take me?”

    WORKSHOP  DESCRIPTION :

    The workshop is intended for all who want to work on the balance, either intellectual, emotional,
    financial, legal, or in terms of responsibility, in a relationship.
    We are open to anyone who interested in the subject, especially couples and future parents, as well
    as people of homosexual orientation

    The workshop is intended for all who wonder weather in their relationship the giving and the taking
    are in the equilibrium. In other words how are the costs and benefits of their investment related.
    Are both of the partners equally invested?

    During the workshop we want to investigate how the addictions of both partners influence what is
    happening in the relationship. The possible addictions include alcoholism, substance abuse, as well
    as the addiction to sex, money and power.

    You can attend the workshop with questions such as: Is my partner’s behaviour an addiction or
    simply a habit?. Is my partner cheating because the sex addiction or are there other reasons?
    Out experience tells us that addictions get worse as the relationship progresses and result in
    diminishing feeling of the responsibility for the relationship.
     

    It is important to ask when can we speak about elements of addiction in sexual behaviour? When
    watching pornography may become a problem in the marriage?
    How seductive tendencies of one of the partners may affect the relationship?
    The workshop is open for people with a history of sexual abuse.

    DATES:

      29 January 2021, 10:00-18:00 (Saturday)

    Conditions of participation :

     Prepayment of 400 PLN is required at least 14 days before the beginning of the workshop. The
    prepayment cannot be returned if the participation is cancelled within 48 hours before the
    workshop.
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a
    private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre's therapists.
      Attendance is required during the entire workshop.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that
    neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2
    week period before and after the workshop.


    VENUE:
    ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
    Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
    Warsaw, Poland

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    APPLICATION:

    by email aditus@​aditus.​pl
    (Please give your contact phone number) .
    or a personal telephone call
    +48 608 529 968 ,
    I also reply to text messages

    Małgorzata Krupińska
    +48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
    malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.pl

    attending therapist:

    Teresa Ossowska Małgorzata Krupińska

    COST:

    Constellations— 900 PLN
    Observer— 400 PLN

    PAYMENT:

    cash or account:
    Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
    98  1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022

  • 26.03.2022 Constellation -educational workshop: „ How to discover and respect you own professional potential? Dynamical and well suited professional development. How to get out of professional stagnation?

    26.03.2022 Constellation -educational workshop: „ How to discover and respect you own professional potential? Dynamical and well suited professional development. How to get out of professional stagnation?

    It is possible to work on different topics during the workshop although the professional development will
    be the main focus.
    Behind every period of being stuck there is a task to do. Being stuck is a myth you created to remain loyal
    to either your family, its agreed upon reality or your trauma. Redefine your myth so that it contains what
    you need develop in yourself, what you need to trust and the direction to move on.
    The most loyal (metaphorically) members of family live on the same street, think as well as try to feel and
    behave similarly.
    One who wants to separate oneself has to (metaphorically) move out from the closest neighborhood in
    order to see different ways of life and consciously choose own lifestyle.
    During this workshop we will examine which career path is suitable for you at your stage of life.

    More information on organizational constellations can be found in the following article

    In your job are you a Giver or a Taker, or are you a person who lives in balance?
    Givers often gift compulsively and without a moderation. It is simply a habit having various origins. At
    the root of this state often lies an addiction to a pleasurable experiences connected with work. Even the
    act of going to the work can be a source of pleasure (e.g. connection with others, boss’ approval and
    appreciation). During the workshop we will inspect the reasons behind these patterns.
    We will pay a lot of attention to ways to change own internal scripts in professional life which cause the
    stagnation.
    We will focus on what you can lose getting unstuck and what unpleasant sides of the success you will
    have to accept or work on.
    We will also focus on which aspects of your career are supported by your father’s lineage and which by
    your mother’s lineage.
    During the workshop we will examine fears connected with the professional stagnation and then release
    them.
    The proposed workshop is based on the idea of Bert’s Hellinger family constellations, but nowadays out
    work is enriched by several therapeutic methods such as: working with Life Time Line, knowledge of
    Total Biology, perinatal cycle, working with client’s mother cell.

    DATE:
    26 March 2022; Saturday 10:00-18:00

     

    Terms of Participation:
    • Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The
      prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the
      workshop.
    • Adhere to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data,
      retraining form using alcohol and drugs)
    • Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
    • Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither
      them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week
      period before and after the workshop.
    • Participation in the whole workshop is required.

     


    Location:
    ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
    i Rehabilitacji Psychicznej
    Madalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa

    Zobacz w Google Maps

     


    CONTACT:

    Teresa Ossowska
    digitally aditus@aditus.pl
    (please attach your phone number) .
    or directly via phone
    +48 608 529 968 ,
    text messages are fine

    Małgorzata Krupińska
    +48 503 081 181 (najlepiej SMS) lub
    malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.pl

    Therapists:

    Teresa Ossowska

    Małgorzata Krupińska

     


    COST:

    900 zł Constellation

    4oo zł Observer

    PAYMENT:

    cash or bank transfer:
    Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
    98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022

  • Addiction therapy group „Find your strength”

    Addiction therapy group „Find your strength”

    We offer you the group based on analytic therapy. We use both mainstream methods as well as
    innovative methods (Peak States Therapy, Constellation Therapy, psycho-energetic analysis,
    Total Biology).

    Dependence on alcohol, medication and other chemical substances is usually connected with
    underdeveloped independence from parents, in other words a disturbed process of separation.
    A child, even if already has created own family, has not internalized own “good parents”.. The
    adolescent often copies behaviour of one of the parents, which drinks or is addicted to sex,
    substance or adrenaline/strong sensations.

    During the group therapy we search for the moments in development of the client when he
    imitates behaviour of an addicted parent or parents. Subsequently the therapist is able to heal
    this particular moment using regression. Sometimes this moment is a part of clients
    childhood, sometimes a part of client’s parent’s childhood. Addiction therapy group is also
    concerned with “Project Goal”, i.e. 9 months before the conception, during the conception,
    pregnancy and labour as well as during the first year of life.
    Our group is open to anyone interested in regaining vital energy consumed by various
    behaviour, which we wrote about previously (sex, compulsive work, power, alcohol,
    medication, strong personalities, sweets, video games).

    Addictions in our life often are non-trivial, such as Addiction to cleaning or Meditation and
    prayer.

     

    Group therapy for the addicted and co-addicted

    Substance addiction is when sugar, alcohol, drugs, medicine, pain killers serve us as a mood
    booster or to medicate withdrawal from the said substance.
    On the other hand, psychological addiction is a state when anger, retreat, submission, shame,
    gambling, video games, compulsive work, compulsive cleaning or adopting view’s of others
    regulates our mood or helps us get rid of the effects of tantrums, excessive shopping,
    impulsive sex etc.

    Dependence on others for years keeps us in the illusion that our life is just about to change. In
    just a moment he/she will stop drinking and will start taking care of himself/herself and the
    children. We tell ourselves that he/she will change when

    1.  Our child will be born
    2.  We will build our home
    3. Grandchildren will be born
    4. He / She will stop working in a toxic environment
    5. He / She will get a promotion
    6. A project at work will end

    For years we may act inefficiently by yielding to or arguing with a spouse and hoping that it
    will change the situation in the relationship. That we will be accepted or appreciated. The
    truth hiding underneath such behaviour is painful. We often repeat the type of relationship our

    parents had. One of them might have left the family home to run away from difficult reality,
    to help their mother, to avoid violence or poverty etc., but not in order to love the partner.
    After years the relationship is lacking intimacy in form of acceptance or satisfaction. Life is
    getting harder.

    Examples of an addicted lifestyle

    Success with addiction

    A married couple with a 2 year old son. Without any help they managed to get a mortgage,
    they seem very positive.
    Nobody sees that she nervously awaits the child to be asleep because then she can afford to
    drink a few glasses of wine. Nobody sees his fear when she does not stop drinking and does
    not allow to take their son to his parents so they may take care of him.
    Depending on the shared illusions
    A couple in their thirties. They think they will have a child soon, as soon as the salary and the
    house will get bigger. Somewhere at the bottom of my soul I can see that they will not ever be
    ready. A child would mean that both mothers of the wife and the husband would lose contact
    with their respective child, they would feel depressed and worthless. While the wife and
    husband could not bear to risk loosing the nursing by the spouse.
    Addiction to care

    Another example

    A marriage where the woman is too “weak”, has suicidal thoughts. The
    husband takes up the role of her guardian and supports her through her mood swings. The
    woman gradually becomes dependent not only on her mood swings, but also on her husband,
    on his words, thoughts and acceptance.
    The woman has an illusion of protection. In reality she is more and more dependent. When it
    turns out that the help was not selfless, the woman suffers a shock, begins psychiatric
    treatment and discovers her pattern of depending on manipulative men.
    The woman realizes how much she boosted her husband’s mood by being angry at herself and
    exaggerating her vices.

    Substance and psychological addiction can teach us that:
    1. Admit the thought that I cannot do something
    2. Ask others for help
    3. That I am responsible for my life because it belongs to me

     

    Dates:

    The work of the addiction therapy group meeting include 7 meetings

    19 February; 12 March; 2 April ; 23 April; 14 May; 4 June; 25 June 2022

     

     

    Conditions of participation:

      Participation in all meetings.
      Prepayment for participation in the meetings of the group in the amount of 250 zł (paid in person or by bank transfer 7 days before the date of commencement of the group.
      Adherence to the principles of therapeutic contract.
     If the participant cancels their participation later than 48h before the date of start of the group meetings the payments paid so far won’t be reimbursed.
      Consulting a psychiatrist or other specialist if necessary.
      Taking responsibility for your treatment.


    Venue:
    Aditus Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
    Warsaw, Poland
    Madalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa

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    Application:

    Teresa Ossowska
    e-mail aditus@aditus.pl

    (Please give your contact phone number)
    or a personal telephone call
    +48 608 529 968 ,
    I also reply to text messages

    Małgorzata Krupińska
    +48 503 081 181 (best SMS) or
    malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.pl

    TEAM:

    Teresa Ossowska

    Małgorzata Krupińska

     


    Admission fee:

     

    550 zł for the first meeting

    600 zł for each meeting after that

    Payement method:

    in cash or via bank transfer:
    Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
    98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022

     

  • 17-18 September 2021 Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for the parents and physicians?

    17-18 September 2021 Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for the parents and physicians?

    WORKSHOP  DESCRIPTION :

    This workshop is addressed to physicians searching for long-term solutions for parents whose children often fall ill and remain ill for a long time. During our workshop, we want to convince the contestants that medical conditions often result from psychological conflicts in their families’ histories.
    The child’s medical condition results from the way the child copes with these conflicts.
    About the workshop:
    We invite you to the workshop addressed to physicians and parents of children suffering from:
    •upper respiratory tract infections (pharyngitis, tonsillitis or bronchitis)
    •skin disorders (atopic dermatitis, psoriasis, foot and nail mycosis, etc.)
    •gastrointestinal diseases (diarrhoea, constipation, etc.)
    •we also work with (grand-)children suffering from other conditions.
    The child’s energetic structure and DNA contains information on the history, religion, paths of the soul, love, beliefs and relationships of the child’s parents and relatives. The child also carries a history of its own soul, i.e. its own karma records.
    All children are committed to maintaining their family relations and contribute to their survival. The child ensures the stability of the parents’ health and binds parents together.
    Children in multicultural families combine the cultures of both parents and the conflicts that occur when these cultures clash with one another. Children of Jewish and Catholic descent carry the conflicts that had occurred between the religions of their parents. Such children inherit all conflicts that had occurred between their parents’ relatives and their cultures within 18 months before fertilisation, around the time of fertilisation, during pregnancy, birth and within the first 12 months of their lives.
    These conflicts have a considerable impact on children. An example of a high-profile conflict is the murder of a family member, a person from outside of the family or involvement in genocide.
    The sense of belonging to a given culture and lineage make us immensely proud even though we only know a small percentage of the history of our families, countries and races.

    The involvement of family members in conflicts is reflected in the souls, the psyches and the bodies of their offspring, who may suffer from autoimmune diseases or psychological disorders. We are not familiar with the stories of our ancestors or their karma records. We do not even realize what events have been recorded by our own soul. Diseases give us the opportunity to fill in the gaps in knowledge about ourselves and our family members. Diseases also bring us closer to the sick and to those who have been excluded by the family or feel excluded due to conflicts within their own souls. Depending on the nature of their relations with parents, children can bring parents closer to one another. Children mean the world to their parents. Parents are often concerned about their children and embark on a self-development journey upon becoming parents.
    If the parent is convinced that the child’s diseases are merely the result of physical factors, he or she will not have enough determination to explore the self. All family issues are recorded in the biological structures of the body. Incest, paedophilia, separation, alcoholism and other disorders are recorded in the biological structures of the body – In stem cells, in particular organs and in the blood.

    The following examples show information about the self or family members that patients find particularly difficult to come to terms with:
    • Nobody in our family profited from prostitution or war.
    • It’s impossible that a brother could feel physically attracted to his sister.
    • My child couldn’t have been a soldier in the past life.
    • Grandpa couldn’t have been a thief.
    People object to who they were in the their past lives. They do not even entertain the possibility that they could have lived past lives and that their souls carry experiences from those lives. They do this because they fear being rejected or looked down on by other people.

     

    DATES:

      17-18 September 2021, 10:00-18:00 ( Friday & Saturday)

    Conditions of participation :

      Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 16 days before the workshop begins.
      Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
      An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
      The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
      Attendance is required throughout the entire


    VENUE:
    ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
    Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
    Warsaw, Poland

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    APPLICATION:

    by email aditus@​aditus.​pl
    (Please give your contact phone number) .
    or a personal telephone call
    +48 608 529 968 ,
    I also reply to text messages

    Małgorzata Krupińska
    +48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
    malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.pl

    attending therapist:

    Teresa Ossowska Małgorzata Krupińska

    COST:

    Constellations— 900 PLN
    Observer— 400 PLN

    PAYMENT:

    cash or account:
    Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
    98  1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022