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1st April 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „Family and systemic solutions for illness and crisis in family”
This workshop is aimed at everyone with health problems or undergoing a crisis in the family. We have written extensively about relationships between illness and past or current events in family in many articles (LINK).
It should be mentioned that for the prophylaxis of many cancers and tumours it is important to work through traumas and difficulties, both personal and familial.
During the workshop we will inspect what the participants think about themselves and their lifes. We will propose how change the way of thinking so that it is in service of health and solving crisis in family and relationships.
The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.
Examples of crisis in a family:
1. An example of crisis in family is a situation when one of the parents is not present in th family, or is present very little. If the present parent falls ill then the adult child taking care of the parent delays shaping own life as long as the parent is alive.
2. An example of an unconscious loyalty to the family is failure at school. “A good son” or a “good daughter” cannot surpass his or her parent’s education level. Such son or daughter may be late for an important exam, forget ID or even to studying, give back an empty test, have an accident during the day of the exam or simply not pass. Such failure may seem irrational, but at the same time may be a good solution form the perspective of the family: e.g. such without higher education he or her will not leave the town and will take care of the parents.
3. Often the reason of crisis is jealousy between siblings, when one of the siblings has supposedly better health or greater successes in life, functions better in life.
4. An other form of the same crisis is a situation when one of the siblings barely functions and other is financially successful and is perceived as more capable and having easier life.
Often there is an unspoken rule in the family to support the unsuccessful members with money and special treatment because “they have a difficult life”. The supposedly healthy sibling does not have the right to have own crisis: to need money, support or to not indefinitely take interest in life of the less capable sibling. If the healthy children dare to be successful or think differently to the rest of the family they are often attacked. These attack may take various forms: jealousy, comparing, envy or thinking that success simply falls into someone laps.5. Divorce of a sibling is yet another example of a crisis in the family. When one of the siblings gets divorced, usually support from other siblings and members of the family is required. But their reactions may vary. When members of the family are silent it often means that they do not support the decision, they think “the spouse was such a good man or woman, we cannot condemn him or her”.
During the workshop we will look to resolve similar situations.”.
THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:
Anyone interested in illness in families.
Anyone working with families and health issues.
Anyone looking for help, for themselves and their closests.
Parents of children failing at school.
Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families
DATE:
1 April 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00
TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:
Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.APPLY:
Teresa Ossowska
+48 608 529 968
aditus@aditus.pl,
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plWorkshop conducted by:
COST:
900 zł Constellation
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022OTHER WORKSHOPS:
21st January 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „How to survive marriage crisis and stay sane?”
A crisis may be very helpful for the development of a relationship. Being in “golden cage” is a state when relationship is still profitable, but at the same time spouses are stuck. “In golden cage everything is fine” while simultaneous there is a substantial unhappiness. We get sick, drink and gain weight. Every relationship entails submission of some aspects of life to the partner, yet the partners should still maintain own autonomy. It is not true that you can be in relationship and maintain self-determination. Even if it is only a sexual relationship it affects other aspects of life: emotional, societal, financial, spiritual, intellectual. It is common for a woman to be dependent financially on her husband.
Famous wars have been and still are fought over whose family of origin is better. Some of them are so divided and dispersed that they are not able to constructively support the young couple in developing as a relationship and a family.
A spouse is always compared to the mother, for example a wife may adore her husband just as his mother did. In such relationship the starting capital given to a husband by his wife won’t be real for a long time, it will be to large. A marital crisis may restore the proper level of adoration for the man.
Whether people enter into sexual relationship depends on their ability to read each others sexual signs.We choose partners in order either to avoid what we have left in our family house or because the partner reminds us of it. If a pattern appears according to which one of the side provides more financially or emotionally manifests itself early, it will likely be consolidate with time.
THE WORKSHOP IS AIMED AT ANYONE READY TO WORK WITH TOPICS SUCH AS:
One of the sides in the relationship want the child, the other does not.
How to maintain a balance when one of the partners is very successful professionally or financially?
The world-view differences between partners and spouses.
Miscarriages, abortions and loss of child as a sign of problems in the marriage.
Child’s somatic, neurological and psychological illness and the marital relationship.
Somatic, neurological and psychological illness of spouses or other family members and the marital relationship.
Alpha male, alpha female.
Partner’s addiction to sex, anger, shopping, alcohol, video games and the marriage.
When a divorce is a good solution for the relationship and family?
How to prepare oneself for the divorce?
The workshop builds on Bert Hellinger’s concept of systemic constellations. Currently our methods also incorporate: working with the Life Time Line, Total Biology, perinatal cycle and client’s mother cell.
DATE:
21 January 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00
TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:
Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.APPLY:
Teresa Ossowska
+48 608 529 968
aditus@aditus.pl,
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plWorkshop conducted by:
COST:
900 zł Constellation
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022OTHER WORKSHOPS:
22.10.2022 Systemic constellation workshop: “Perfectionism – how to regain freedom of choice?”
During the systemic constellations workshop we will present examples of excessive perfectionist behaviours. We will answer the question when an excessive perfectionist person should seek help.
The pattern of perfectionism, exhibits itself in the fact the a person either does everything perfectly or not at all. It is present in sport, relationships, professional life and its other parts.
We will discuss ancestral messages supporting perfectionism. We will give examples of events in family life accompanying perfectionist behaviours. During the workshop we will seek to look at the unaccepted, excluded parts of ourselves.
Perfectionism remarkably focuses us on mistakes, a perfectionist person fears making one. At the ancestral level perfectionism is a memory of somebody losing their way in life, of making a wrong choice. This decision was painful and destructive for a member of the family or other people. If we are on the right path we are active and energetic, we withdraw from destructive behaviours. We admit to mistakes and recognize unrealistic expectations and in consequence are able to withdraw from harmful relationships.
Healthy family knows that its every member has to work though their own shame, and in doing so recognize own limitations.
Such a family knows that every family has its own secrets, mysteries and unspoken stories. These ancestral stories are similar to antique furniture: broken and stuffed in a basement, yet capable of enriching the interior after a renovation.
When a true family history is reconstructed all its members can breathe a sigh of relief ad regain strength. Perfectionist patterns are no longer needed.
All forms of double morality, rigidity and contradiction between feeling, thoughts and actions are warnings signs and should compel us to self-improvement.
DATE:
22 October 2022, Saturday 10:00-18:00
THE WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU IF:
You are interested in personal develepment,
You want to work on a theme of personal life, choice of right education or development,
You want to work for your children and relationhip with them or in the area of health.TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:
Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.
Participation in the whole workshop is required.APPLY:
Teresa Ossowska
+48 608 529 968
aditus@aditus.pl,
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plWorkshop conducted by:
COST:
900 zł Constellation
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022OTHER WORKSHOPS:
Warsztat 20.08.2022 “Systemic constellation workshop in Warsaw “Father and children development”
How the father is and how he functions often determinates how the family is being perceived in the social
environment. If the father has good social competences, communicates with his neighbours and his
family, if he represents his family outside well, he supports them, then the child is well protected.
Then the child can develop own potential. Such father has great social power.
For the child’s mental health it is not only important, how the father functions in real live but also how
much he has integrated his unconscious aspects. One ways to answer this question is to consider, whether
the father is addicted to alcohol, sex, power, anger or religion.It is important, whether the father is mentally balanced, whether he can stay calm in difficult situations
and manage his anger towards his/the children. Even adult children perceive impulsive, uncontrollable
behavior of their parents as expression of bad will: “if only my father wanted to, he would be able to”.An important aspect for the men as a father is whether he has a job which allows him to support his
family without excessive stress.
The father is an model of manhood. How the father communicates with the mother, the way he treats her
sets the basic example for the child. This example includes the relationship between the parents during the
day and in the night, in terms of their sexual relationship.
It is important, who the father is on the spiritual level, what his values are. How he perceives the world
and what he feels responsible for.
What are his core values?:money, prestige, domination, cooperation, submission, survival, imitation
behavior, development.Recently, a lot has been said about conscious presence of the father in the life of children and about his
active engagement in the family life.
Even if the parents are divorced or getting divorced the father’s presence in child’s life is considered
important. It is extremely hard for the children whose parents getting divorce, if their parents are upset
and feel aversion.
Then each parent may unconsciously invite the children to the role of trustees or a substitute partners.
Such children, who act as trustees of one of the parents find it more easy to enter into incestuous
relationship with their own children.An adult women once asked during the workshop “Is it normal, that as a child I wanted to sleep with my
father?” Therapist answered “the child may have the wish to sleep with the father, there is nothing wrong
with it, but it is the father’s role to set the boundaries and refuse the daughter”
Grown up children who are fighting with their own father in fact have never separated from him. To
separate from own father means to know him well, to isolate from him, to not repeat that which doesn’t
work for him.Workshop participants
• Parents, who wants to do work for their children
• Adults interested in the topic of the father-child relationship
• Clients who would like to work with a different theme are welcome
The proposed workshop is based on the idea of Bert’s Hellinger family constellations, but nowadays
our work is enriched by several therapeutic methods such as: working with Life Time Line, knowledge
of Total Biology, perinatal cycle, working with client’s mother cell.Terms of Participation:
- Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment
is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop
doby przed terminem warsztatu, to zaliczka nie podlega zwrotowi. - Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data,
refraining from using alcohol and drugs). - Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private
paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists. - Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither
them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period
before and after the workshop. - Participation in the whole workshop is required.
Date:
20 August 2022, Saturday 10:00-18:00
Venue:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
Apply:Teresa Ossowska
email aditus@aditus.pl
phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plWorkshop conducted by:
COST:900 zł Constellation
4oo zł Observer
WPŁATY:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
Other Workshops:- Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment
29.01.2022 Systemic constellations workshop: “My relationship – my mirror. Where will my relationship take me?”
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION :
The workshop is intended for all who want to work on the balance, either intellectual, emotional,
financial, legal, or in terms of responsibility, in a relationship.
We are open to anyone who interested in the subject, especially couples and future parents, as well
as people of homosexual orientationThe workshop is intended for all who wonder weather in their relationship the giving and the taking
are in the equilibrium. In other words how are the costs and benefits of their investment related.
Are both of the partners equally invested?During the workshop we want to investigate how the addictions of both partners influence what is
happening in the relationship. The possible addictions include alcoholism, substance abuse, as well
as the addiction to sex, money and power.You can attend the workshop with questions such as: Is my partner’s behaviour an addiction or
simply a habit?. Is my partner cheating because the sex addiction or are there other reasons?
Out experience tells us that addictions get worse as the relationship progresses and result in
diminishing feeling of the responsibility for the relationship.
It is important to ask when can we speak about elements of addiction in sexual behaviour? When
watching pornography may become a problem in the marriage?
How seductive tendencies of one of the partners may affect the relationship?
The workshop is open for people with a history of sexual abuse.DATES:
29 January 2021, 10:00-18:00 (Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Prepayment of 400 PLN is required at least 14 days before the beginning of the workshop. The
prepayment cannot be returned if the participation is cancelled within 48 hours before the
workshop.
Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a
private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre's therapists.
Attendance is required during the entire workshop.
Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that
neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2
week period before and after the workshop.
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 802226.03.2022 Constellation -educational workshop: „ How to discover and respect you own professional potential? Dynamical and well suited professional development. How to get out of professional stagnation?
It is possible to work on different topics during the workshop although the professional development will
be the main focus.
Behind every period of being stuck there is a task to do. Being stuck is a myth you created to remain loyal
to either your family, its agreed upon reality or your trauma. Redefine your myth so that it contains what
you need develop in yourself, what you need to trust and the direction to move on.
The most loyal (metaphorically) members of family live on the same street, think as well as try to feel and
behave similarly.
One who wants to separate oneself has to (metaphorically) move out from the closest neighborhood in
order to see different ways of life and consciously choose own lifestyle.
During this workshop we will examine which career path is suitable for you at your stage of life.More information on organizational constellations can be found in the following article
In your job are you a Giver or a Taker, or are you a person who lives in balance?
Givers often gift compulsively and without a moderation. It is simply a habit having various origins. At
the root of this state often lies an addiction to a pleasurable experiences connected with work. Even the
act of going to the work can be a source of pleasure (e.g. connection with others, boss’ approval and
appreciation). During the workshop we will inspect the reasons behind these patterns.
We will pay a lot of attention to ways to change own internal scripts in professional life which cause the
stagnation.
We will focus on what you can lose getting unstuck and what unpleasant sides of the success you will
have to accept or work on.
We will also focus on which aspects of your career are supported by your father’s lineage and which by
your mother’s lineage.
During the workshop we will examine fears connected with the professional stagnation and then release
them.
The proposed workshop is based on the idea of Bert’s Hellinger family constellations, but nowadays out
work is enriched by several therapeutic methods such as: working with Life Time Line, knowledge of
Total Biology, perinatal cycle, working with client’s mother cell.DATE:
26 March 2022; Saturday 10:00-18:00
Terms of Participation:
- Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The
prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the
workshop. - Adhere to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data,
retraining form using alcohol and drugs) - Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
- Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither
them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week
period before and after the workshop. - Participation in the whole workshop is required.
Location:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
CONTACT:Teresa Ossowska
digitally aditus@aditus.pl
(please attach your phone number) .
or directly via phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
text messages are fineMałgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (najlepiej SMS) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plTherapists:
COST:900 zł Constellation
4oo zł Observer
PAYMENT:
cash or bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
POZOSTAŁE WARSZTATY:- Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The
17-18 September 2021 Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for the parents and physicians?
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION :
This workshop is addressed to physicians searching for long-term solutions for parents whose children often fall ill and remain ill for a long time. During our workshop, we want to convince the contestants that medical conditions often result from psychological conflicts in their families’ histories.
The child’s medical condition results from the way the child copes with these conflicts.
About the workshop:
We invite you to the workshop addressed to physicians and parents of children suffering from:
•upper respiratory tract infections (pharyngitis, tonsillitis or bronchitis)
•skin disorders (atopic dermatitis, psoriasis, foot and nail mycosis, etc.)
•gastrointestinal diseases (diarrhoea, constipation, etc.)
•we also work with (grand-)children suffering from other conditions.
The child’s energetic structure and DNA contains information on the history, religion, paths of the soul, love, beliefs and relationships of the child’s parents and relatives. The child also carries a history of its own soul, i.e. its own karma records.
All children are committed to maintaining their family relations and contribute to their survival. The child ensures the stability of the parents’ health and binds parents together.
Children in multicultural families combine the cultures of both parents and the conflicts that occur when these cultures clash with one another. Children of Jewish and Catholic descent carry the conflicts that had occurred between the religions of their parents. Such children inherit all conflicts that had occurred between their parents’ relatives and their cultures within 18 months before fertilisation, around the time of fertilisation, during pregnancy, birth and within the first 12 months of their lives.
These conflicts have a considerable impact on children. An example of a high-profile conflict is the murder of a family member, a person from outside of the family or involvement in genocide.
The sense of belonging to a given culture and lineage make us immensely proud even though we only know a small percentage of the history of our families, countries and races.The involvement of family members in conflicts is reflected in the souls, the psyches and the bodies of their offspring, who may suffer from autoimmune diseases or psychological disorders. We are not familiar with the stories of our ancestors or their karma records. We do not even realize what events have been recorded by our own soul. Diseases give us the opportunity to fill in the gaps in knowledge about ourselves and our family members. Diseases also bring us closer to the sick and to those who have been excluded by the family or feel excluded due to conflicts within their own souls. Depending on the nature of their relations with parents, children can bring parents closer to one another. Children mean the world to their parents. Parents are often concerned about their children and embark on a self-development journey upon becoming parents.
If the parent is convinced that the child’s diseases are merely the result of physical factors, he or she will not have enough determination to explore the self. All family issues are recorded in the biological structures of the body. Incest, paedophilia, separation, alcoholism and other disorders are recorded in the biological structures of the body – In stem cells, in particular organs and in the blood.The following examples show information about the self or family members that patients find particularly difficult to come to terms with:
• Nobody in our family profited from prostitution or war.
• It’s impossible that a brother could feel physically attracted to his sister.
• My child couldn’t have been a soldier in the past life.
• Grandpa couldn’t have been a thief.
People object to who they were in the their past lives. They do not even entertain the possibility that they could have lived past lives and that their souls carry experiences from those lives. They do this because they fear being rejected or looked down on by other people.DATES:
17-18 September 2021, 10:00-18:00 ( Friday & Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 16 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 802215-16 November 2019 – Workshop “How to end an important stage in life and go to the next one?”
Workshop description:
The theme of the workshop means that one meeting can be attended by different people who can work on saying goodbye to something old and building a new reality in which they will be able to feel fine. It can be participated by people who got divorced or are planning to get divorced, whose relationship ended, who lost someone close, their job or company.
Every such change is something big and a large source of stress because each and every one of them brings changes to basic needs of a human being.
It is a change of basic ties if it is about losing someone close.
It is a loss of security if it is about losing a job.
It is a loss of social position, self-esteem and financial security if it is about losing a company.
In the event of a divorce, it is about a loss of relationship, feeling of safety, sometimes about losing a social position. Of course, everyone reacts to such events in a unique way. In general, everyone reacts differently.
In the event of a change, it is appropriate to:
A) Plan it or accept that is has already happened.
B) Deal with it.
C) Create a new reality in which needs are satisfied at an earlier or another stage.
Ideally, after a change (divorce, break-up, loss of someone close) the stage on which needs are satisfied should be higher but, usually in the beginning of such a change, it is definitely lower than before.
There are many people who have never ended grieving the death of another person, the break-up of a relationship or friendship.
A strategy in which we live in the old and new at the same time is a dual situation of suspension and entanglement.
It is unclear if a relationship is over because the couple still spend holidays and time together.
It is unclear if a couple have broken up because they run a business together and have not split its assets. It is unclear if a couple have broken up because of thoughts, feelings, talks and deliberations about the partner. In such a situation, it is hard to create something else in life.
We talk about and feel stagnation. Instead of lasting a year (which is often enough to close the process), the grieving period takes longer and one is stuck in various aspects of old reality. It is important to settle legal, financial, emotional, social and family issues.
In regards to a divorce: generally, to make a divorce happen, the following need to take place:
A) Realise why do you want to end a relationship and decide to get a divorce
B) The decision must be made before you lose the chance to rebuild your life.
C) In principle, support within the family system is needed to complete a divorce.
D) The person who wants such a change must be aware that it will take time and money, that he/she will need to contact a lawyer, see a doctor and receive psychological support.
E) It is essential to draw conclusions regarding your own involvement in the situation at hand.
Regarding (A):
A) writing down the reasons for your decision, e.g. a crisis in marriage which lasted for several years and could not be resolved.
B) there was no common opinion on raising children
C) the partner did not accept what you did because in his/her world “everything sucks”
Regarding (B):
It needs to be taken into account that a divorce requires physical and mental effort.
Usually, you need to feel strong if you want to end a relationship. It does not mean that there is no point going for a change in another situation … however, such a decision has its consequences.
Regarding (C):
Talk with important family members and tell them that you are planning a divorce. You will need their acceptance (at least partial or passive acceptance) before, during and a year after the divorce.
Regarding (D):
Apart from time, money, legal and mental support, you may need new skills, e.g. you will have to learn to pay the bills, deal with administrative and official issues even if you have not done it before. Knowing how your body or your child’s body may react to prolonged stress periods because of a divorce may protect your health and keep you independent from medical institutions. At ADITUS, we also carry out consultations and organise therapy workshops for people who want to successfully end an old relationship and create a new one.
Regarding (E):
In principle, psychological work is needed. It is focused on co-participation in a difficult relationship. Why did the relationship last this long?
What was my involvement in it?
Why did I enter into a relationship with such a person?
A) Perhaps, my parents’ relationship was similar – the father was a cold person and the mother could not handle her emotions
B) Perhaps, the mother married the father out of convenience but inside she still missed her first love
C) Perhaps, I did not feel loved as a child and some time later I thought that I am not loved in a relationship, as well. This might be a mature and realistic statement.
D) Perhaps, I chose the partner because I had an illusion that he/she would always protect me in social situations with his/her strength and relieve my social fear.
Whatever the result of our work is, it is important not to skip this stage and take responsibility for your development and decision.
Date:
15-16 November 2019, 10:00-18:00 (Friday-Saturday)
Recipients of the workshop:
Those who want to build a satisfying relationship.
Those who want to analyse their thoughts on relationships.
Those who got divorced or are planning to get divorced, got separated, who lost someone close, their job or company.
Conditions of participation:
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
APPLICATIONS:Teresa Ossowska
email aditus@aditus.pl
(please leave your contact number) .
or via phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also answer text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (preferably text) or
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plLECTURERS:
COST:900 zł Constellations
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
POZOSTAŁE WARSZTATY:20-21 September 2019 – Workshop “Difficult parenting – you can do more than you think”
About:
Understand, accept, change, transform.
The workshop is addressed to parents who want to understand their child’s behaviour or fate, want to adapt better to the situation they are in, to change or transform it. The workshop will not necessarily be attended by parents whose children are rebellious, fight for their independence in an open, sometimes painful and hard, way which is also focused on cooperation. The workshop will be rather an opportunity to meet parents whose children are seemingly polite and cheerful but are hard to communicate with and have their secrets.
Recipients of the workshop:
We invite parents,
who raise their own children or step children, patchwork parents, those who look after children of their siblings, those who bring up children on their own, those who have children from other relationships.
of obedient, aggressive, “healthy” and sick, disabled children
whose children are addicted to sweets and alcohol, marijuana, computer games. Usually, parents do not know if their children are addicted to hard drugs
whose children have anger, aggression or rage issues or have problems with self-mutilation. Contrary to appearances, the number of self-mutilating children is higher than we think. Parents of such children think that they are an exception
whose children are full of self-destruction, do not take their chances in life
whose children suffer from bad mood and are constantly disappointed with themselves.
whose children joined a monastery, religious community or changed their religion.
who are divorcing and want to look what is happening with their children
whose children have problems with overeating or use various diets.
whose children are homosexual, all parents who want to change their relations with their child.
Issues:
During the workshop, we will answer the following questions:
How does difficult parenting change a parent’s life?
Who have I become because of this experience?
What have I opened my eyes to?
How have I started to perceive life?
What have I started to fight for?
What mental and physical powers are needed by a parent because of difficult parenting?
To what point a parent can sacrifice their life to their child’s issues?
What sources of support can be found in the family and outside it?
What does difficult parenting change in the life of your family?
During the workshop:
During the workshop, we will reveal subsequent events from the life of a family to shed some light on them, take responsibility for them and, therefore, heal them. Illusions replace the reality and some problems “disappear” by themselves because we know where the real root of the problem is.
We reveal subsequent events from the life of a family which are never discussed, the so-called “family shadow”. This leads to profound healing of the entire family. The entire journey requires much more work than a single workshop.
The results of the efforts made during the workshop may appear in the biological sphere.
Date:
20-21 September 2019, Friday-Saturday; 10:00-18:00
Conditions of participation:
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire workshop.
Venue:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
Applications:Teresa Ossowska
via email aditus@aditus.pl
(please leave your contact number) .
or via phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also anwser text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (preferably via text) or
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plLecturers:
COST:900 zł Constelations
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
POZOSTAŁE WARSZTATY:3 August 2019 – Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for physicians and parents
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION :
This workshop is addressed to physicians searching for long-term solutions for parents whose children often fall ill and remain ill for a long time. During our workshop, we want to convince the contestants that medical conditions often result from psychological conflicts in their families’ histories.
The child’s medical condition results from the way the child copes with these conflicts.
About the workshop:
We invite you to the workshop addressed to physicians and parents of children suffering from:
•upper respiratory tract infections (pharyngitis, tonsillitis or bronchitis)
•skin disorders (atopic dermatitis, psoriasis, foot and nail mycosis, etc.)
•gastrointestinal diseases (diarrhoea, constipation, etc.)
•we also work with (grand-)children suffering from other conditions.
The child’s energetic structure and DNA contains information on the history, religion, paths of the soul, love, beliefs and relationships of the child’s parents and relatives. The child also carries a history of its own soul, i.e. its own karma records.
All children are committed to maintaining their family relations and contribute to their survival. The child ensures the stability of the parents’ health and binds parents together.
Children in multicultural families combine the cultures of both parents and the conflicts that occur when these cultures clash with one another. Children of Jewish and Catholic descent carry the conflicts that had occurred between the religions of their parents. Such children inherit all conflicts that had occurred between their parents’ relatives and their cultures within 18 months before fertilisation, around the time of fertilisation, during pregnancy, birth and within the first 12 months of their lives.
These conflicts have a considerable impact on children. An example of a high-profile conflict is the murder of a family member, a person from outside of the family or involvement in genocide.
The sense of belonging to a given culture and lineage make us immensely proud even though we only know a small percentage of the history of our families, countries and races.The involvement of family members in conflicts is reflected in the souls, the psyches and the bodies of their offspring, who may suffer from autoimmune diseases or psychological disorders. We are not familiar with the stories of our ancestors or their karma records. We do not even realize what events have been recorded by our own soul. Diseases give us the opportunity to fill in the gaps in knowledge about ourselves and our family members. Diseases also bring us closer to the sick and to those who have been excluded by the family or feel excluded due to conflicts within their own souls. Depending on the nature of their relations with parents, children can bring parents closer to one another. Children mean the world to their parents. Parents are often concerned about their children and embark on a self-development journey upon becoming parents.
If the parent is convinced that the child’s diseases are merely the result of physical factors, he or she will not have enough determination to explore the self. All family issues are recorded in the biological structures of the body. Incest, paedophilia, separation, alcoholism and other disorders are recorded in the biological structures of the body – In stem cells, in particular organs and in the blood.The following examples show information about the self or family members that patients find particularly difficult to come to terms with:
• Nobody in our family profited from prostitution or war.
• It’s impossible that a brother could feel physically attracted to his sister.
• My child couldn’t have been a soldier in the past life.
• Grandpa couldn’t have been a thief.
People object to who they were in the their past lives. They do not even entertain the possibility that they could have lived past lives and that their souls carry experiences from those lives. They do this because they fear being rejected or looked down on by other people.DATES:
3 August 2019, 10:00-18:00 ( Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
