ADITUS

Author: Małgorzata Krupińska

  • Systemic constellation workshop „You can change more in your family, than you think” 11th May 2024

    Systemic constellation workshop „You can change more in your family, than you think” 11th May 2024

    Child’s may serve many functions in the family. In the nutshell: child’s illness always affects the parents’ relationship. This illness brings awareness to the excluded, the unknown and the unsolved in the family..

    The solution is not only to invest in an expensive treatment. But rather also to see the existing problems in relationship and broader family, e.g. between parents and grand parents. We observe that in ill children’s systems at least one of the parents is excessively connected with their mother of father.

    Child’s illness may be a sign of unfinished mourning for the older child, who was was aborted or miscarried. For example the next child after the abortion may experience loss of appetite, refuse to eat, be sad or withdrawn and live in own world.

    Child illness may play many roles in parents’ relationship:
    • Increase importance of the parent taking care of the child’s health. This parent becomes less submissive in the relationship.
    • Another pregnancy may stop a partner who wants to develop, e.g. have better job. The position of the other parent is not threatened. .

    Parents of children with diagnosed genetic disorder often experience anxiety and panic. They often have symptoms of depression, they feel devoid of life, overburdened, lonely and lost. They feel that everyday life is just too much. Often they experience sudden emotion changes and their mood may quickly change from sadness to well-being. Then again the good mood may as quickly change into anger, irritation, emptiness, screaming and feeling broken.

    Stress resulting from sudden mood changes is often reduced by one or both parent drinking. When parents drink, the children have to adapt to elevated levels of stress. They never know when a parent may erupt. The children feels threatened, like they lack their own place, cannot defend themselves and get what they need in life. A child of a drinking parent is always in a state of emotional tension.

    When a child is born sick or is sick often then one or both parents may feel guilty of it. Family constellations may help with this problem. Most likely the deeper reason for the illness lies in the past of the family.

    Example:
    11 months old girls is separated form her mother, because the mother is hospitalized for thyroid nodules. During the stay the mother is irradiated. The effect of mother’s stay in the hospital and her irradiation is that the mother is very scared for her child. Three months after returning to home the girl looses all of her hair. Woman’s family is frightened by the hair loss. When the family realizes that the girl’s grandfather lost his hair completely when his wife was hospitalized the child’s hair grows back.

    Another example:
    3 years old boy is subjected to his father fits of rage. The father throws heavy objects at him and the boy must be really quick to catch them. The boy feels unprotected and angry. When “the little boy” grows up and starts his own family his first son is born. During the first year of his life the “newly born boy” turns out that the grandson of the aggressive grandfather is autistic.

    Children who are always sick with tonsillitis signal to their parents that the level of aggresion between the parents or in their families is very high. Often on the surface the relationship seems to be good, stable and satisfying. Tonsillitis motivates the adults to look for manifestations of aggression in family both close and distant.

    Childhood is a period of intensive laryngological diseases, diseases of the ears, nose and throat. Throat inflammation and tonsillitis are important sources of information about the children and their relationship with close ones.

    Recurrent bronchitis in children and adults has its source in the present relationship in the family and with close people. For example the daughter’s husband felt shamed during the diner at his parents-in-law. His fears repeating the situation and couple hours before the visit he has the symptoms of bronchitis.

    Often we do not know the history of our ancestors. The illness allows us to look for the missing knowledge about ourselves and our families. The illness makes us look for the sick and excluded members of our family.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Even passive participants (i.e. without own constellation) will feel real benefits from being in the healing field.

    The workshop is also open to healthy adults. Even if health is not the reason behind participation, the constellation work is a form of prophylaxis.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone ready for a change.
      Homosexual and bisexual people who want to work on their addiction, acceptation of their own identity by themselves or other people. Examples of topics: accepting own identity, fear of rejection by family or pears, how to stop being seen only through the lens of the sexual identity.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    11th May 2024, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 3rd February 2024

    Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 3rd February 2024

    Child’s may serve many functions in the family. In the nutshell: child’s illness always affects the parents’ relationship. This illness brings awareness to the excluded, the unknown and the unsolved in the family..

    The solution is not only to invest in an expensive treatment. But rather also to see the existing problems in relationship and broader family, e.g. between parents and grand parents. We observe that in ill children’s systems at least one of the parents is excessively connected with their mother of father.

    Child’s illness may be a sign of unfinished mourning for the older child, who was was aborted or miscarried. For example the next child after the abortion may experience loss of appetite, refuse to eat, be sad or withdrawn and live in own world.

    Child illness may play many roles in parents’ relationship:
    • Increase importance of the parent taking care of the child’s health. This parent becomes less submissive in the relationship.
    • Another pregnancy may stop a partner who wants to develop, e.g. have better job. The position of the other parent is not threatened. .

    Parents of children with diagnosed genetic disorder often experience anxiety and panic. They often have symptoms of depression, they feel devoid of life, overburdened, lonely and lost. They feel that everyday life is just too much. Often they experience sudden emotion changes and their mood may quickly change from sadness to well-being. Then again the good mood may as quickly change into anger, irritation, emptiness, screaming and feeling broken.

    Stress resulting from sudden mood changes is often reduced by one or both parent drinking. When parents drink, the children have to adapt to elevated levels of stress. They never know when a parent may erupt. The children feels threatened, like they lack their own place, cannot defend themselves and get what they need in life. A child of a drinking parent is always in a state of emotional tension.

    When a child is born sick or is sick often then one or both parents may feel guilty of it. Family constellations may help with this problem. Most likely the deeper reason for the illness lies in the past of the family.

    Example:
    11 months old girls is separated form her mother, because the mother is hospitalized for thyroid nodules. During the stay the mother is irradiated. The effect of mother’s stay in the hospital and her irradiation is that the mother is very scared for her child. Three months after returning to home the girl looses all of her hair. Woman’s family is frightened by the hair loss. When the family realizes that the girl’s grandfather lost his hair completely when his wife was hospitalized the child’s hair grows back.

    Another example:
    3 years old boy is subjected to his father fits of rage. The father throws heavy objects at him and the boy must be really quick to catch them. The boy feels unprotected and angry. When “the little boy” grows up and starts his own family his first son is born. During the first year of his life the “newly born boy” turns out that the grandson of the aggressive grandfather is autistic.

    Children who are always sick with tonsillitis signal to their parents that the level of aggresion between the parents or in their families is very high. Often on the surface the relationship seems to be good, stable and satisfying. Tonsillitis motivates the adults to look for manifestations of aggression in family both close and distant.

    Childhood is a period of intensive laryngological diseases, diseases of the ears, nose and throat. Throat inflammation and tonsillitis are important sources of information about the children and their relationship with close ones.

    Recurrent bronchitis in children and adults has its source in the present relationship in the family and with close people. For example the daughter’s husband felt shamed during the diner at his parents-in-law. His fears repeating the situation and couple hours before the visit he has the symptoms of bronchitis.

    Often we do not know the history of our ancestors. The illness allows us to look for the missing knowledge about ourselves and our families. The illness makes us look for the sick and excluded members of our family.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Even passive participants (i.e. without own constellation) will feel real benefits from being in the healing field.

    The workshop is also open to healthy adults. Even if health is not the reason behind participation, the constellation work is a form of prophylaxis.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone ready for a change.
      Homosexual and bisexual people who want to work on their addiction, acceptation of their own identity by themselves or other people. Examples of topics: accepting own identity, fear of rejection by family or pears, how to stop being seen only through the lens of the sexual identity.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    3rd  February 2024, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Internet and video game addiction

    Internet and video game addiction

    Addicts of all ages are to be counted in millions worldwide. Addiction among the younger generation – age 19-40 – is an especially large problem, both socially and economically.
    We suspect the video game/internet addiction if:

    • If the person has lost control over gaming and the internet usage – does it too often, too long or cannot stop
    • playing games and using the internet are more important then everyday activities, hobbies and interest
    • the persons tries to stop but does not succeed


    According to WHO if a person lost control over their life due to compulsive usage of internet, playing video games or consuming series over the period of at least 12 months then it may be a case of the addiction. It should not be surprising as we are constantly bombarded by screens. Such stimuli activates the pleasure centre in the brain.
    The addict often has an extensive system of illusion and denial. Often the denial is constructed from the negative opinions about the self: „nobody likes me”,”I do not hurt anybody”, „ I do not have a problem with stopping”, „I cannot do anything about it” as well as „everybody does it”.

    There are several stages of the development of the addiction:

    1. Daydreaming about porn or playing games
    2. Gaming, surfing the internet or watching porn has a character of a ritual. E.g. A person watches porn at a certain time, in certain place, often in bad mood (tired, bored, frustrated, frightened or after an argument with the partner) or consuming the same food.
    3. Abandonment or neglect of everyday activities. An addict does not eat, sleep, bath or go to work/school.
    4. The final phase is a period of hopelessness, when the addict uses for a prolonged time (up to 30 hours), until they are no longer able to continue to addicting activity and reflects the they have just failed an exam, missed an important meeting or did not participate in a contest.


    If the addiction develops then also negative options about oneself intensify: „I am useless”, „nobody understands me”, „I cannot tell who I am”, „ I can count only on myself”. With time the opinions become more acute, distorted and unfavourable.
    Therapeutic work is necessary for the addict to see that those convictions are not true. In the advanced phase of the addiction there might be necessary to isolated the addict from the family environment and the opportunity to play games, use the internet or social media. Such person might be institutionalized in an addiction centre in order to enter in the abstinence phase.

    Stages of healing of addiction to the internet, video games and porn

    1. phase: Enter into the abstinence
    2. phase: Working through the addiction mechanics, so that the addict gains the understanding of their addiction and need for change of behaviour
    3. phase: rebuilding of the life without addiction

    According to clinical trials, 70% of video game, internet, series and porn addicts do not have any social relations, or close physical bonds with any person
    Many parents do not see that their children are addicted, because they are too busy with professional or marital crisis.
    Prolonged use of internet, playing video games or watching series changes the limbic system. When contact with other people becomes virtual, the neurotransmitters produced by limbic system during the real-life contact are not produced. This leads to the feeling of discomfort in social scenarios, which is intensified by the abandonment of the social relation.
    A great difficult associated with this type of addiction is that the virtual world offers sexual stimulation and quasi-personal relationships. Addicts often have a distorted image of their sexuality. They perceive both men and women more sexually and see the human sexuality exaggerated and distorted. Many addicts have not dated in a long time or ever entered a long-lasting relationship.
    The Aditus Centre offers help for those whose recognise those behaviours and parents concerned for their children.

  • Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 18th November 2023

    Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 18th November 2023

    Child’s may serve many functions in the family. In the nutshell: child’s illness always affects the parents’ relationship. This illness brings awareness to the excluded, the unknown and the unsolved in the family..

    The solution is not only to invest in an expensive treatment. But rather also to see the existing problems in relationship and broader family, e.g. between parents and grand parents. We observe that in ill children’s systems at least one of the parents is excessively connected with their mother of father.

    Child’s illness may be a sign of unfinished mourning for the older child, who was was aborted or miscarried. For example the next child after the abortion may experience loss of appetite, refuse to eat, be sad or withdrawn and live in own world.

    Child illness may play many roles in parents’ relationship:
    • Increase importance of the parent taking care of the child’s health. This parent becomes less submissive in the relationship.
    • Another pregnancy may stop a partner who wants to develop, e.g. have better job. The position of the other parent is not threatened. .

    Parents of children with diagnosed genetic disorder often experience anxiety and panic. They often have symptoms of depression, they feel devoid of life, overburdened, lonely and lost. They feel that everyday life is just too much. Often they experience sudden emotion changes and their mood may quickly change from sadness to well-being. Then again the good mood may as quickly change into anger, irritation, emptiness, screaming and feeling broken.

    Stress resulting from sudden mood changes is often reduced by one or both parent drinking. When parents drink, the children have to adapt to elevated levels of stress. They never know when a parent may erupt. The children feels threatened, like they lack their own place, cannot defend themselves and get what they need in life. A child of a drinking parent is always in a state of emotional tension.

    When a child is born sick or is sick often then one or both parents may feel guilty of it. Family constellations may help with this problem. Most likely the deeper reason for the illness lies in the past of the family.

    Example:
    11 months old girls is separated form her mother, because the mother is hospitalized for thyroid nodules. During the stay the mother is irradiated. The effect of mother’s stay in the hospital and her irradiation is that the mother is very scared for her child. Three months after returning to home the girl looses all of her hair. Woman’s family is frightened by the hair loss. When the family realizes that the girl’s grandfather lost his hair completely when his wife was hospitalized the child’s hair grows back.

    Another example:
    3 years old boy is subjected to his father fits of rage. The father throws heavy objects at him and the boy must be really quick to catch them. The boy feels unprotected and angry. When “the little boy” grows up and starts his own family his first son is born. During the first year of his life the “newly born boy” turns out that the grandson of the aggressive grandfather is autistic.

    Children who are always sick with tonsillitis signal to their parents that the level of aggresion between the parents or in their families is very high. Often on the surface the relationship seems to be good, stable and satisfying. Tonsillitis motivates the adults to look for manifestations of aggression in family both close and distant.

    Childhood is a period of intensive laryngological diseases, diseases of the ears, nose and throat. Throat inflammation and tonsillitis are important sources of information about the children and their relationship with close ones.

    Recurrent bronchitis in children and adults has its source in the present relationship in the family and with close people. For example the daughter’s husband felt shamed during the diner at his parents-in-law. His fears repeating the situation and couple hours before the visit he has the symptoms of bronchitis.

    Often we do not know the history of our ancestors. The illness allows us to look for the missing knowledge about ourselves and our families. The illness makes us look for the sick and excluded members of our family.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Even passive participants (i.e. without own constellation) will feel real benefits from being in the healing field.

    The workshop is also open to healthy adults. Even if health is not the reason behind participation, the constellation work is a form of prophylaxis.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone ready for a change.
      Homosexual and bisexual people who want to work on their addiction, acceptation of their own identity by themselves or other people. Examples of topics: accepting own identity, fear of rejection by family or pears, how to stop being seen only through the lens of the sexual identity.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    18 November 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 16th September 2023

    Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 16th September 2023

    Child’s may serve many functions in the family. In the nutshell: child’s illness always affects the parents’ relationship. This illness brings awareness to the excluded, the unknown and the unsolved in the family..

    The solution is not only to invest in an expensive treatment. But rather also to see the existing problems in relationship and broader family, e.g. between parents and grand parents. We observe that in ill children’s systems at least one of the parents is excessively connected with their mother of father.

    Child’s illness may be a sign of unfinished mourning for the older child, who was was aborted or miscarried. For example the next child after the abortion may experience loss of appetite, refuse to eat, be sad or withdrawn and live in own world.

    Child illness may play many roles in parents’ relationship:
    • Increase importance of the parent taking care of the child’s health. This parent becomes less submissive in the relationship.
    • Another pregnancy may stop a partner who wants to develop, e.g. have better job. The position of the other parent is not threatened. .

    Parents of children with diagnosed genetic disorder often experience anxiety and panic. They often have symptoms of depression, they feel devoid of life, overburdened, lonely and lost. They feel that everyday life is just too much. Often they experience sudden emotion changes and their mood may quickly change from sadness to well-being. Then again the good mood may as quickly change into anger, irritation, emptiness, screaming and feeling broken.

    Stress resulting from sudden mood changes is often reduced by one or both parent drinking. When parents drink, the children have to adapt to elevated levels of stress. They never know when a parent may erupt. The children feels threatened, like they lack their own place, cannot defend themselves and get what they need in life. A child of a drinking parent is always in a state of emotional tension.

    When a child is born sick or is sick often then one or both parents may feel guilty of it. Family constellations may help with this problem. Most likely the deeper reason for the illness lies in the past of the family.

    Example:
    11 months old girls is separated form her mother, because the mother is hospitalized for thyroid nodules. During the stay the mother is irradiated. The effect of mother’s stay in the hospital and her irradiation is that the mother is very scared for her child. Three months after returning to home the girl looses all of her hair. Woman’s family is frightened by the hair loss. When the family realizes that the girl’s grandfather lost his hair completely when his wife was hospitalized the child’s hair grows back.

    Another example:
    3 years old boy is subjected to his father fits of rage. The father throws heavy objects at him and the boy must be really quick to catch them. The boy feels unprotected and angry. When “the little boy” grows up and starts his own family his first son is born. During the first year of his life the “newly born boy” turns out that the grandson of the aggressive grandfather is autistic.

    Children who are always sick with tonsillitis signal to their parents that the level of aggresion between the parents or in their families is very high. Often on the surface the relationship seems to be good, stable and satisfying. Tonsillitis motivates the adults to look for manifestations of aggression in family both close and distant.

    Childhood is a period of intensive laryngological diseases, diseases of the ears, nose and throat. Throat inflammation and tonsillitis are important sources of information about the children and their relationship with close ones.

    Recurrent bronchitis in children and adults has its source in the present relationship in the family and with close people. For example the daughter’s husband felt shamed during the diner at his parents-in-law. His fears repeating the situation and couple hours before the visit he has the symptoms of bronchitis.

    Often we do not know the history of our ancestors. The illness allows us to look for the missing knowledge about ourselves and our families. The illness makes us look for the sick and excluded members of our family.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Even passive participants (i.e. without own constellation) will feel real benefits from being in the healing field.

    The workshop is also open to healthy adults. Even if health is not the reason behind participation, the constellation work is a form of prophylaxis.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone ready for a change.
      Homosexual and bisexual people who want to work on their addiction, acceptation of their own identity by themselves or other people. Examples of topics: accepting own identity, fear of rejection by family or pears, how to stop being seen only through the lens of the sexual identity.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    16 September 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Medytacja wspierająca wyjście z uzależnienia

  • Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 3rd June 2023

    Systemic constellation workshop „Illness in the family and problems with children as a way to key reforms” 3rd June 2023

    Child’s may serve many functions in the family. In the nutshell: child’s illness always affects the parents’ relationship. This illness brings awareness to the excluded, the unknown and the unsolved in the family..

    The solution is not only to invest in an expensive treatment. But rather also to see the existing problems in relationship and broader family, e.g. between parents and grand parents. We observe that in ill children’s systems at least one of the parents is excessively connected with their mother of father.

    Child’s illness may be a sign of unfinished mourning for the older child, who was was aborted or miscarried. For example the next child after the abortion may experience loss of appetite, refuse to eat, be sad or withdrawn and live in own world.

    Child illness may play many roles in parents’ relationship:
    • Increase importance of the parent taking care of the child’s health. This parent becomes less submissive in the relationship.
    • Another pregnancy may stop a partner who wants to develop, e.g. have better job. The position of the other parent is not threatened. .

    Parents of children with diagnosed genetic disorder often experience anxiety and panic. They often have symptoms of depression, they feel devoid of life, overburdened, lonely and lost. They feel that everyday life is just too much. Often they experience sudden emotion changes and their mood may quickly change from sadness to well-being. Then again the good mood may as quickly change into anger, irritation, emptiness, screaming and feeling broken.

    Stress resulting from sudden mood changes is often reduced by one or both parent drinking. When parents drink, the children have to adapt to elevated levels of stress. They never know when a parent may erupt. The children feels threatened, like they lack their own place, cannot defend themselves and get what they need in life. A child of a drinking parent is always in a state of emotional tension.

    When a child is born sick or is sick often then one or both parents may feel guilty of it. Family constellations may help with this problem. Most likely the deeper reason for the illness lies in the past of the family.

    Example:
    11 months old girls is separated form her mother, because the mother is hospitalized for thyroid nodules. During the stay the mother is irradiated. The effect of mother’s stay in the hospital and her irradiation is that the mother is very scared for her child. Three months after returning to home the girl looses all of her hair. Woman’s family is frightened by the hair loss. When the family realizes that the girl’s grandfather lost his hair completely when his wife was hospitalized the child’s hair grows back.

    Another example:
    3 years old boy is subjected to his father fits of rage. The father throws heavy objects at him and the boy must be really quick to catch them. The boy feels unprotected and angry. When “the little boy” grows up and starts his own family his first son is born. During the first year of his life the “newly born boy” turns out that the grandson of the aggressive grandfather is autistic.

    Children who are always sick with tonsillitis signal to their parents that the level of aggresion between the parents or in their families is very high. Often on the surface the relationship seems to be good, stable and satisfying. Tonsillitis motivates the adults to look for manifestations of aggression in family both close and distant.

    Childhood is a period of intensive laryngological diseases, diseases of the ears, nose and throat. Throat inflammation and tonsillitis are important sources of information about the children and their relationship with close ones.

    Recurrent bronchitis in children and adults has its source in the present relationship in the family and with close people. For example the daughter’s husband felt shamed during the diner at his parents-in-law. His fears repeating the situation and couple hours before the visit he has the symptoms of bronchitis.

    Often we do not know the history of our ancestors. The illness allows us to look for the missing knowledge about ourselves and our families. The illness makes us look for the sick and excluded members of our family.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Even passive participants (i.e. without own constellation) will feel real benefits from being in the healing field.

    The workshop is also open to healthy adults. Even if health is not the reason behind participation, the constellation work is a form of prophylaxis.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone ready for a change.
      Homosexual and bisexual people who want to work on their addiction, acceptation of their own identity by themselves or other people. Examples of topics: accepting own identity, fear of rejection by family or pears, how to stop being seen only through the lens of the sexual identity.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    6 June 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • 1st April 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „Family and systemic solutions for illness and crisis in family”

    1st April 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „Family and systemic solutions for illness and crisis in family”

    This workshop is aimed at everyone with health problems or undergoing a crisis in the family. We have written extensively about relationships between illness and past or current events in family in many articles (LINK).

    It should be mentioned that for the prophylaxis of many cancers and tumours it is important to work through traumas and difficulties, both personal and familial.

    During the workshop we will inspect what the participants think about themselves and their lifes. We will propose how change the way of thinking so that it is in service of health and solving crisis in family and relationships.

    The workshop is based on deeply healing meditation, mitochondrial therapy resulting in cellular regeneration, working with client’s mother cell, lifeline and genealogical tree, as well as knowledge of Total Biology.

    Examples of crisis in a family:

    1. An example of crisis in family is a situation when one of the parents is not present in th family, or is present very little. If the present parent falls ill then the adult child taking care of the parent delays shaping own life as long as the parent is alive.

    2. An example of an unconscious loyalty to the family is failure at school. “A good son” or a “good daughter” cannot surpass his or her parent’s education level. Such son or daughter may be late for an important exam, forget ID or even to studying, give back an empty test, have an accident during the day of the exam or simply not pass. Such failure may seem irrational, but at the same time may be a good solution form the perspective of the family: e.g. such without higher education he or her will not leave the town and will take care of the parents.

    3. Often the reason of crisis is jealousy between siblings, when one of the siblings has supposedly better health or greater successes in life, functions better in life.

    4. An other form of the same crisis is a situation when one of the siblings barely functions and other is financially successful and is perceived as more capable and having easier life.
    Often there is an unspoken rule in the family to support the unsuccessful members with money and special treatment because “they have a difficult life”. The supposedly healthy sibling does not have the right to have own crisis: to need money, support or to not indefinitely take interest in life of the less capable sibling. If the healthy children dare to be successful or think differently to the rest of the family they are often attacked. These attack may take various forms: jealousy, comparing, envy or thinking that success simply falls into someone laps.

    5. Divorce of a sibling is yet another example of a crisis in the family. When one of the siblings gets divorced, usually support from other siblings and members of the family is required. But their reactions may vary. When members of the family are silent it often means that they do not support the decision, they think “the spouse was such a good man or woman, we cannot condemn him or her”.

    During the workshop we will look to resolve similar situations.”.

    THE WORKSHOP IS FOR:

      Anyone interested in illness in families.
      Anyone working with families and health issues.
      Anyone looking for help, for themselves and their closests.
      Parents of children failing at school.
      Homosexuals and bisexuals suffering crisis in their families

    DATE:

    1 April 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.

  • Therapeutic and Addiction Group: “Find your own strength”

    Therapeutic and Addiction Group: “Find your own strength”

    We are all dependent on our way of viewing the world.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    We rarely realise that the self-image behind the addiction has little to do with the true self-image. In general the self-image is disproportionately too modest in case of the dependence on other people or too high, as in the cases of the addiction to power, sex or anger.

    Often, as a result of their effective reduction, the addict is not conscious of these feeling. Equally often the addict delegates their feeleings on the neighbourhood

    The others are not responsible for feelings of the addicted person. On the contrary, we are responsible for our actions. We can look for the source of the addiction at the deeper levels than our life (e.g. in the family history). And yet it does not change the fact that we ourselves are responsible for looking for solutions.

    What is more nobody can find them for us. We are responsible for stopping the anger, the abuse of power and sex. We are responsible for our destructive relationships, for identifying with someone else’s restrictive views, for eating and drinking our anger, failure or depression. We are responsible for our inner destruction which we suppress with addiction and for all of the consequences of depending on the alcohol, sex, etc.

    The most important dynamic of addiction is that it consumes more and more time. Frequency and intensity of the addiction increases during the life.

    Then comes the time when the intensity of the addiction, together with the substance tolerance decreases. The substance addition (alcohol, medicine, psychoactive drugs) or behavioural addiction (e.g. from anger, partner, sex, shopping) may transition into different kind of addiction. For example an alcohol addict stops drinking and start searching for intense sexual relationships. A person who often gets angry and erupts may become dependent on someone who know how to tame this anger.

    People with high levels of perfectionism (understood as a striving for the ideal and perfect) may develop various obsession, phobias and depressive states. Perfectionist women more often suffer form eating disorders: e.g. alternating between losing and gaining weight or orthorexia.

    Nevertheless the addict remains in the state of limited awareness of own actions.

    To work on the addiction, as we understand it in Aditus, means to create an opportunity for clients to accesses the lost part of theirselves. During the therapy clients rebuilds their own thought, feelings, behaviours in order to live a fuller life.

    Working on the addiction tolerates no compromises, as the healthy life accepts no half-truths and half-measures. Gradually the client sees own life more and more realistically, and handles it better thanks to the clearer vision.

    If you want to have an appropriate, stable and high self-esteem we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you want to feel that you have a real impact on your life we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If you value independence and inner peace we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    If your child is addicted to phone, internet or is otherwise overwhelming we invite you to join the therapeutic group.

    DATES:

    The work of the addiction therapy group meeting include 7 meetings:

    4 March; 25 March; 22 April; 6 May; 27 May; 17 June; 8 July

    Who is the workshop for:

      Everyone determined to change,
      Everyone whose energy goes to waste on alcohol, eating, sex or other addiction.

    Terms of participation :

      Participation in all meetings.
      Prepayment for participation in the meetings of the group in the amount of 250 zł (paid in person or by bank transfer 7 days before the date of commencement of the group.
      Adherence to the principles of therapeutic contract.
      Consulting a psychiatrist or other specialist if necessary.
     If the participant cancels their participation later than 48h before the date of start of the group meetings the payments paid so far won’t be reimbursed.
      Taking responsibility for your treatment.

  • 21st January 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „How to survive marriage crisis and stay sane?”

    21st January 2023: Systemic constellation workshop „How to survive marriage crisis and stay sane?”

    A crisis may be very helpful for the development of a relationship. Being in “golden cage” is a state when relationship is still profitable, but at the same time spouses are stuck. “In golden cage everything is fine” while simultaneous there is a substantial unhappiness. We get sick, drink and gain weight. Every relationship entails submission of some aspects of life to the partner, yet the partners should still maintain own autonomy. It is not true that you can be in relationship and maintain self-determination. Even if it is only a sexual relationship it affects other aspects of life: emotional, societal, financial, spiritual, intellectual. It is common for a woman to be dependent financially on her husband.

    Famous wars have been and still are fought over whose family of origin is better. Some of them are so divided and dispersed that they are not able to constructively support the young couple in developing as a relationship and a family.

    A spouse is always compared to the mother, for example a wife may adore her husband just as his mother did. In such relationship the starting capital given to a husband by his wife won’t be real for a long time, it will be to large. A marital crisis may restore the proper level of adoration for the man.
    Whether people enter into sexual relationship depends on their ability to read each others sexual signs.

    We choose partners in order either to avoid what we have left in our family house or because the partner reminds us of it. If a pattern appears according to which one of the side provides more financially or emotionally manifests itself early, it will likely be consolidate with time.

    THE WORKSHOP IS AIMED AT ANYONE READY TO WORK WITH TOPICS SUCH AS:

      One of the sides in the relationship want the child, the other does not.
      How to maintain a balance when one of the partners is very successful professionally or financially?
      The world-view differences between partners and spouses.
      Miscarriages, abortions and loss of child as a sign of problems in the marriage.
      Child’s somatic, neurological and psychological illness and the marital relationship.
      Somatic, neurological and psychological illness of spouses or other family members and the marital relationship.
      Alpha male, alpha female.
      Partner’s addiction to sex, anger, shopping, alcohol, video games and the marriage.
      When a divorce is a good solution for the relationship and family?
      How to prepare oneself for the divorce?

    The workshop builds on Bert Hellinger’s concept of systemic constellations. Currently our methods also incorporate: working with the Life Time Line, Total Biology, perinatal cycle and client’s mother cell.

    DATE:

    21 January 2023, Saturday 10:00-18:00

    TERMS OF PARTICIPATION:

      Prepayment of 400 PLN at least 14 days before the date of the workshop is required. The prepayment is not eligible for a refund if the participant cancels less than 48h before the workshop.
      Adherence to the therapeutic contract (discretion, respecting other participants’ privacy and data, refraining from using alcohol and drugs).
      Participants who have not previously worked with Teresa Ossowska are required to book a private paid session – either in-person or online – with one of our centre’s therapists.
     Active participants (i.e. people for whom a constellation is set up) are asked to confirm that neither them nor their close family members are participating in constellation workshop in the 2 week period before and after the workshop.