Your cart is currently empty!
Author: Małgorzata Krupińska
Addiction therapy group „Find your strength”
We offer you the group based on analytic therapy. We use both mainstream methods as well as
innovative methods (Peak States Therapy, Constellation Therapy, psycho-energetic analysis,
Total Biology).Dependence on alcohol, medication and other chemical substances is usually connected with
underdeveloped independence from parents, in other words a disturbed process of separation.
A child, even if already has created own family, has not internalized own “good parents”.. The
adolescent often copies behaviour of one of the parents, which drinks or is addicted to sex,
substance or adrenaline/strong sensations.During the group therapy we search for the moments in development of the client when he
imitates behaviour of an addicted parent or parents. Subsequently the therapist is able to heal
this particular moment using regression. Sometimes this moment is a part of clients
childhood, sometimes a part of client’s parent’s childhood. Addiction therapy group is also
concerned with “Project Goal”, i.e. 9 months before the conception, during the conception,
pregnancy and labour as well as during the first year of life.
Our group is open to anyone interested in regaining vital energy consumed by various
behaviour, which we wrote about previously (sex, compulsive work, power, alcohol,
medication, strong personalities, sweets, video games).Addictions in our life often are non-trivial, such as Addiction to cleaning or Meditation and
prayer.Group therapy for the addicted and co-addicted
Substance addiction is when sugar, alcohol, drugs, medicine, pain killers serve us as a mood
booster or to medicate withdrawal from the said substance.
On the other hand, psychological addiction is a state when anger, retreat, submission, shame,
gambling, video games, compulsive work, compulsive cleaning or adopting view’s of others
regulates our mood or helps us get rid of the effects of tantrums, excessive shopping,
impulsive sex etc.Dependence on others for years keeps us in the illusion that our life is just about to change. In
just a moment he/she will stop drinking and will start taking care of himself/herself and the
children. We tell ourselves that he/she will change when- Our child will be born
- We will build our home
- Grandchildren will be born
- He / She will stop working in a toxic environment
- He / She will get a promotion
- A project at work will end
For years we may act inefficiently by yielding to or arguing with a spouse and hoping that it
will change the situation in the relationship. That we will be accepted or appreciated. The
truth hiding underneath such behaviour is painful. We often repeat the type of relationship ourparents had. One of them might have left the family home to run away from difficult reality,
to help their mother, to avoid violence or poverty etc., but not in order to love the partner.
After years the relationship is lacking intimacy in form of acceptance or satisfaction. Life is
getting harder.Examples of an addicted lifestyle
Success with addiction
A married couple with a 2 year old son. Without any help they managed to get a mortgage,
they seem very positive.
Nobody sees that she nervously awaits the child to be asleep because then she can afford to
drink a few glasses of wine. Nobody sees his fear when she does not stop drinking and does
not allow to take their son to his parents so they may take care of him.
Depending on the shared illusions
A couple in their thirties. They think they will have a child soon, as soon as the salary and the
house will get bigger. Somewhere at the bottom of my soul I can see that they will not ever be
ready. A child would mean that both mothers of the wife and the husband would lose contact
with their respective child, they would feel depressed and worthless. While the wife and
husband could not bear to risk loosing the nursing by the spouse.
Addiction to careAnother example
A marriage where the woman is too “weak”, has suicidal thoughts. The
husband takes up the role of her guardian and supports her through her mood swings. The
woman gradually becomes dependent not only on her mood swings, but also on her husband,
on his words, thoughts and acceptance.
The woman has an illusion of protection. In reality she is more and more dependent. When it
turns out that the help was not selfless, the woman suffers a shock, begins psychiatric
treatment and discovers her pattern of depending on manipulative men.
The woman realizes how much she boosted her husband’s mood by being angry at herself and
exaggerating her vices.Substance and psychological addiction can teach us that:
1. Admit the thought that I cannot do something
2. Ask others for help
3. That I am responsible for my life because it belongs to meDates:
The work of the addiction therapy group meeting include 7 meetings
19 February; 12 March; 2 April ; 23 April; 14 May; 4 June; 25 June 2022
Conditions of participation:
Participation in all meetings.
Prepayment for participation in the meetings of the group in the amount of 250 zł (paid in person or by bank transfer 7 days before the date of commencement of the group.
Adherence to the principles of therapeutic contract.
If the participant cancels their participation later than 48h before the date of start of the group meetings the payments paid so far won’t be reimbursed.
Consulting a psychiatrist or other specialist if necessary.
Taking responsibility for your treatment.
Venue:Aditus Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Warsaw, Poland
Madalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
Application:Teresa Ossowska
e-mail aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number)or a personal telephone call+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS) or
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plTEAM:
Admission fee:550 zł for the first meeting
600 zł for each meeting after that
Payement method:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
Other workshops and groups:
Nocturnal enuresis (bedwetting) in children and adults.
Both nocturnal and daytime enuresis are types of involuntary urination. We consider the urinary incontinence to be the enuresis, when it happens to children of the age of 5 and above.
The adult nocturnal enuresis often takes a form of dribbling from the bladder and it happens more frequently to women. The involuntary urination is a loss of bladder control and happens despite the person’s intention, and yet this symptom plays an important role in the survival. It is biologically essential to urinate enough volume and in doing so to mark one’s territory. Animals, such as cats and dogs, urinate on the borders of their territory stating where they live. They do it always when they feel the need to mark the territory more clearly, especially when they are fighting over it.
Low intensity conflicts only induce urinary bladder inflammation or pain. The symptom of the involuntary urination only appears in the phase of the territorial conflict resolution, when the inner mucus wall of the bladder is recovering and ulcers appear. The active phase of the conflict (stress) remains undetected, and yet this is the time when the child or the adult has increased need to mark own territory. The organism increases the volume of the bladder during the active phase in order to collect more urine. This results in increased production of the cells of the internal wall of the bladder.
Let’s take a look at the phase of the active conflict. Why a woman, a man or a child might need to emphasise the borders of the territory. Who is the intruder? A – yet to be born – bother or someone else? When did the child loose the control over the bladder? In other words, when did the child resolve the
territorial conflict for the first time? What was happening in the family at the time? Was the child scared about the mother? Was the mother scared of the father? If in fact the mother is scared of the father, what are the reasons for the wife to be scared of her own husband?In general, we find in the history of the family figures behaving as if “the rest of the family is peeing themselves from the fear”. What happened to the grandmothers and the great grandmother in the night? Was the danger internal or external to the family? Where in the family were the situations in which the wet bedsheet was safer? What was going to happened and what was it preventing from? Looking through the symbolic lens the child is spilling the water (the mother) around and thus using the mother to protect itself.
Taking a look at the adult enuresis What is the adult person afraid of? What are they experiencing? In which relation it is difficult to mark own territory, both psychologically and biologically. Where such person excessively marks the territory? What is happening in the marriage or the partnership?
Who wants to dominate over them in the work relations? Who is the source of the indeterminate fear? In the family history it might have happened that urination saved someone’s live.For example the grandmother was being escorted by the constable to the neighbouring town. She didn’t know why and escaped under the pretext of going into the woods to pee, after returning to home, the constable pretended not to know her. This event, connected to avoiding the death, is then recorded in the strands of the DNA of the descendants and the granddaughter looses the control over the bladder when she is ”trapped or in danger”. She always urinates before travelling or confrontation, when she is “fighting to survive”. We wet ourselves (both children and adults) more often when there is danger and harshness in the family or lack of the understanding between a child and the father. The child is scared and have to mark the territory by the means of peeing, in order to strengthen the borders against the father. When the father, or another important and autorotative person, ridicules this behaviour the child is additionally hurt. The child’s effort to defend its dignity and to straighten the boundaries is being ridiculed, stigmatized and scoffed at.
The adult who suffers form involuntary urination should wonder between whom she tries to mark the boundaries the most. Her conscious mind cannot know this, but the body knows precisely. Situations when problem of outlining the borders are problematic are for example: domestic violence, authoritative violence such as shouting, screaming, bossing around, expectations of complacence, hitting the child in the state of intoxication and being the witness or the victim of sexual violence. The ADITUS therapists treat the cases of the recurring nocturnal enuresis in the children, teens and adults.
READ OTHER ARTICLES …
17-18 September 2021 Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for the parents and physicians?
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION :
This workshop is addressed to physicians searching for long-term solutions for parents whose children often fall ill and remain ill for a long time. During our workshop, we want to convince the contestants that medical conditions often result from psychological conflicts in their families’ histories.
The child’s medical condition results from the way the child copes with these conflicts.
About the workshop:
We invite you to the workshop addressed to physicians and parents of children suffering from:
•upper respiratory tract infections (pharyngitis, tonsillitis or bronchitis)
•skin disorders (atopic dermatitis, psoriasis, foot and nail mycosis, etc.)
•gastrointestinal diseases (diarrhoea, constipation, etc.)
•we also work with (grand-)children suffering from other conditions.
The child’s energetic structure and DNA contains information on the history, religion, paths of the soul, love, beliefs and relationships of the child’s parents and relatives. The child also carries a history of its own soul, i.e. its own karma records.
All children are committed to maintaining their family relations and contribute to their survival. The child ensures the stability of the parents’ health and binds parents together.
Children in multicultural families combine the cultures of both parents and the conflicts that occur when these cultures clash with one another. Children of Jewish and Catholic descent carry the conflicts that had occurred between the religions of their parents. Such children inherit all conflicts that had occurred between their parents’ relatives and their cultures within 18 months before fertilisation, around the time of fertilisation, during pregnancy, birth and within the first 12 months of their lives.
These conflicts have a considerable impact on children. An example of a high-profile conflict is the murder of a family member, a person from outside of the family or involvement in genocide.
The sense of belonging to a given culture and lineage make us immensely proud even though we only know a small percentage of the history of our families, countries and races.The involvement of family members in conflicts is reflected in the souls, the psyches and the bodies of their offspring, who may suffer from autoimmune diseases or psychological disorders. We are not familiar with the stories of our ancestors or their karma records. We do not even realize what events have been recorded by our own soul. Diseases give us the opportunity to fill in the gaps in knowledge about ourselves and our family members. Diseases also bring us closer to the sick and to those who have been excluded by the family or feel excluded due to conflicts within their own souls. Depending on the nature of their relations with parents, children can bring parents closer to one another. Children mean the world to their parents. Parents are often concerned about their children and embark on a self-development journey upon becoming parents.
If the parent is convinced that the child’s diseases are merely the result of physical factors, he or she will not have enough determination to explore the self. All family issues are recorded in the biological structures of the body. Incest, paedophilia, separation, alcoholism and other disorders are recorded in the biological structures of the body – In stem cells, in particular organs and in the blood.The following examples show information about the self or family members that patients find particularly difficult to come to terms with:
• Nobody in our family profited from prostitution or war.
• It’s impossible that a brother could feel physically attracted to his sister.
• My child couldn’t have been a soldier in the past life.
• Grandpa couldn’t have been a thief.
People object to who they were in the their past lives. They do not even entertain the possibility that they could have lived past lives and that their souls carry experiences from those lives. They do this because they fear being rejected or looked down on by other people.DATES:
17-18 September 2021, 10:00-18:00 ( Friday & Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 16 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 802215-16 November 2019 – Workshop “How to end an important stage in life and go to the next one?”
Workshop description:
The theme of the workshop means that one meeting can be attended by different people who can work on saying goodbye to something old and building a new reality in which they will be able to feel fine. It can be participated by people who got divorced or are planning to get divorced, whose relationship ended, who lost someone close, their job or company.
Every such change is something big and a large source of stress because each and every one of them brings changes to basic needs of a human being.
It is a change of basic ties if it is about losing someone close.
It is a loss of security if it is about losing a job.
It is a loss of social position, self-esteem and financial security if it is about losing a company.
In the event of a divorce, it is about a loss of relationship, feeling of safety, sometimes about losing a social position. Of course, everyone reacts to such events in a unique way. In general, everyone reacts differently.
In the event of a change, it is appropriate to:
A) Plan it or accept that is has already happened.
B) Deal with it.
C) Create a new reality in which needs are satisfied at an earlier or another stage.
Ideally, after a change (divorce, break-up, loss of someone close) the stage on which needs are satisfied should be higher but, usually in the beginning of such a change, it is definitely lower than before.
There are many people who have never ended grieving the death of another person, the break-up of a relationship or friendship.
A strategy in which we live in the old and new at the same time is a dual situation of suspension and entanglement.
It is unclear if a relationship is over because the couple still spend holidays and time together.
It is unclear if a couple have broken up because they run a business together and have not split its assets. It is unclear if a couple have broken up because of thoughts, feelings, talks and deliberations about the partner. In such a situation, it is hard to create something else in life.
We talk about and feel stagnation. Instead of lasting a year (which is often enough to close the process), the grieving period takes longer and one is stuck in various aspects of old reality. It is important to settle legal, financial, emotional, social and family issues.
In regards to a divorce: generally, to make a divorce happen, the following need to take place:
A) Realise why do you want to end a relationship and decide to get a divorce
B) The decision must be made before you lose the chance to rebuild your life.
C) In principle, support within the family system is needed to complete a divorce.
D) The person who wants such a change must be aware that it will take time and money, that he/she will need to contact a lawyer, see a doctor and receive psychological support.
E) It is essential to draw conclusions regarding your own involvement in the situation at hand.
Regarding (A):
A) writing down the reasons for your decision, e.g. a crisis in marriage which lasted for several years and could not be resolved.
B) there was no common opinion on raising children
C) the partner did not accept what you did because in his/her world “everything sucks”
Regarding (B):
It needs to be taken into account that a divorce requires physical and mental effort.
Usually, you need to feel strong if you want to end a relationship. It does not mean that there is no point going for a change in another situation … however, such a decision has its consequences.
Regarding (C):
Talk with important family members and tell them that you are planning a divorce. You will need their acceptance (at least partial or passive acceptance) before, during and a year after the divorce.
Regarding (D):
Apart from time, money, legal and mental support, you may need new skills, e.g. you will have to learn to pay the bills, deal with administrative and official issues even if you have not done it before. Knowing how your body or your child’s body may react to prolonged stress periods because of a divorce may protect your health and keep you independent from medical institutions. At ADITUS, we also carry out consultations and organise therapy workshops for people who want to successfully end an old relationship and create a new one.
Regarding (E):
In principle, psychological work is needed. It is focused on co-participation in a difficult relationship. Why did the relationship last this long?
What was my involvement in it?
Why did I enter into a relationship with such a person?
A) Perhaps, my parents’ relationship was similar – the father was a cold person and the mother could not handle her emotions
B) Perhaps, the mother married the father out of convenience but inside she still missed her first love
C) Perhaps, I did not feel loved as a child and some time later I thought that I am not loved in a relationship, as well. This might be a mature and realistic statement.
D) Perhaps, I chose the partner because I had an illusion that he/she would always protect me in social situations with his/her strength and relieve my social fear.
Whatever the result of our work is, it is important not to skip this stage and take responsibility for your development and decision.
Date:
15-16 November 2019, 10:00-18:00 (Friday-Saturday)
Recipients of the workshop:
Those who want to build a satisfying relationship.
Those who want to analyse their thoughts on relationships.
Those who got divorced or are planning to get divorced, got separated, who lost someone close, their job or company.
Conditions of participation:
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
APPLICATIONS:Teresa Ossowska
email aditus@aditus.pl
(please leave your contact number) .
or via phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also answer text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (preferably text) or
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plLECTURERS:
COST:900 zł Constellations
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
POZOSTAŁE WARSZTATY:20-21 September 2019 – Workshop “Difficult parenting – you can do more than you think”
About:
Understand, accept, change, transform.
The workshop is addressed to parents who want to understand their child’s behaviour or fate, want to adapt better to the situation they are in, to change or transform it. The workshop will not necessarily be attended by parents whose children are rebellious, fight for their independence in an open, sometimes painful and hard, way which is also focused on cooperation. The workshop will be rather an opportunity to meet parents whose children are seemingly polite and cheerful but are hard to communicate with and have their secrets.
Recipients of the workshop:
We invite parents,
who raise their own children or step children, patchwork parents, those who look after children of their siblings, those who bring up children on their own, those who have children from other relationships.
of obedient, aggressive, “healthy” and sick, disabled children
whose children are addicted to sweets and alcohol, marijuana, computer games. Usually, parents do not know if their children are addicted to hard drugs
whose children have anger, aggression or rage issues or have problems with self-mutilation. Contrary to appearances, the number of self-mutilating children is higher than we think. Parents of such children think that they are an exception
whose children are full of self-destruction, do not take their chances in life
whose children suffer from bad mood and are constantly disappointed with themselves.
whose children joined a monastery, religious community or changed their religion.
who are divorcing and want to look what is happening with their children
whose children have problems with overeating or use various diets.
whose children are homosexual, all parents who want to change their relations with their child.
Issues:
During the workshop, we will answer the following questions:
How does difficult parenting change a parent’s life?
Who have I become because of this experience?
What have I opened my eyes to?
How have I started to perceive life?
What have I started to fight for?
What mental and physical powers are needed by a parent because of difficult parenting?
To what point a parent can sacrifice their life to their child’s issues?
What sources of support can be found in the family and outside it?
What does difficult parenting change in the life of your family?
During the workshop:
During the workshop, we will reveal subsequent events from the life of a family to shed some light on them, take responsibility for them and, therefore, heal them. Illusions replace the reality and some problems “disappear” by themselves because we know where the real root of the problem is.
We reveal subsequent events from the life of a family which are never discussed, the so-called “family shadow”. This leads to profound healing of the entire family. The entire journey requires much more work than a single workshop.
The results of the efforts made during the workshop may appear in the biological sphere.
Date:
20-21 September 2019, Friday-Saturday; 10:00-18:00
Conditions of participation:
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire workshop.
Venue:ADITUS Ośrodek Psychoterapii
i Rehabilitacji PsychicznejMadalińskiego 67/2, Warszawa
Applications:Teresa Ossowska
via email aditus@aditus.pl
(please leave your contact number) .
or via phone
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also anwser text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (preferably via text) or
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plLecturers:
COST:900 zł Constelations
400 zł Observer
PAYMENT:
in cash or via bank transfer:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022
POZOSTAŁE WARSZTATY:24-24 May 2019 – “A happy couple”
ABOUT the WORKSHOP :
People have different definitions of what constitutes a happy relationship depending on their personality and age. Sensuality, passion and lust are very important at early stages of any relationship.
Other factors gain in importance during the further stages of relationships, e.g. emotions or the feeling of happiness when we can hug our beloved one and feel protected and accepted by our partner.
During our lives, we create models of happy marriages. They are the effect of the relations we share with our parents. These models also result from the way our parents fostered their relationship and how they communicated with one another. Last but not least, these models depend on whether we find similarities between ourselves and our parents.
During our workshop we will discuss how to build happy relationships. It’s good to have a model of happy relationship as a starting point.
1.We know from experience that partners who enjoy happy relationships are usually separated from their parents.
2.They may argue, but they never try to defeat one another.
3.They may be suffer from psychological or chemical addictions, but they continue to develop themselves.
4.They do not demand unconditional love.
5.They are acutely aware of what their partners cherish most.
6.Both partners are diligent and creative.
7.Neither of the partners lives in the shadow of the other.
Happy relationships do not turn into relationships with double dynamics.DATES:
24-25 May 2019, 10:00-18:00 (Friday, Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entireThis workshop is designed for :
People who have or have not been in relationships.
People who wish to build satisfactory relationships.
People who want to explore their own thoughts on relationships.
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 802215-16 March 2019 – Why do children go through illnesses and what can cure them? What do children’s illnesses say about their soul and the family? A workshop for physicians and parents
WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION :
This workshop is addressed to physicians searching for long-term solutions for parents whose children often fall ill and remain ill for a long time. During our workshop, we want to convince the contestants that medical conditions often result from psychological conflicts in their families’ histories.
The child’s medical condition results from the way the child copes with these conflicts.
About the workshop:
We invite you to the workshop addressed to physicians and parents of children suffering from:
•upper respiratory tract infections (pharyngitis, tonsillitis or bronchitis)
•skin disorders (atopic dermatitis, psoriasis, foot and nail mycosis, etc.)
•gastrointestinal diseases (diarrhoea, constipation, etc.)
•we also work with (grand-)children suffering from other conditions.
The child’s energetic structure and DNA contains information on the history, religion, paths of the soul, love, beliefs and relationships of the child’s parents and relatives. The child also carries a history of its own soul, i.e. its own karma records.
All children are committed to maintaining their family relations and contribute to their survival. The child ensures the stability of the parents’ health and binds parents together.
Children in multicultural families combine the cultures of both parents and the conflicts that occur when these cultures clash with one another. Children of Jewish and Catholic descent carry the conflicts that had occurred between the religions of their parents. Such children inherit all conflicts that had occurred between their parents’ relatives and their cultures within 18 months before fertilisation, around the time of fertilisation, during pregnancy, birth and within the first 12 months of their lives.
These conflicts have a considerable impact on children. An example of a high-profile conflict is the murder of a family member, a person from outside of the family or involvement in genocide.
The sense of belonging to a given culture and lineage make us immensely proud even though we only know a small percentage of the history of our families, countries and races.The involvement of family members in conflicts is reflected in the souls, the psyches and the bodies of their offspring, who may suffer from autoimmune diseases or psychological disorders. We are not familiar with the stories of our ancestors or their karma records. We do not even realize what events have been recorded by our own soul. Diseases give us the opportunity to fill in the gaps in knowledge about ourselves and our family members. Diseases also bring us closer to the sick and to those who have been excluded by the family or feel excluded due to conflicts within their own souls. Depending on the nature of their relations with parents, children can bring parents closer to one another. Children mean the world to their parents. Parents are often concerned about their children and embark on a self-development journey upon becoming parents.
If the parent is convinced that the child’s diseases are merely the result of physical factors, he or she will not have enough determination to explore the self. All family issues are recorded in the biological structures of the body. Incest, paedophilia, separation, alcoholism and other disorders are recorded in the biological structures of the body – In stem cells, in particular organs and in the blood.The following examples show information about the self or family members that patients find particularly difficult to come to terms with:
• Nobody in our family profited from prostitution or war.
• It’s impossible that a brother could feel physically attracted to his sister.
• My child couldn’t have been a soldier in the past life.
• Grandpa couldn’t have been a thief.
People object to who they were in the their past lives. They do not even entertain the possibility that they could have lived past lives and that their souls carry experiences from those lives. They do this because they fear being rejected or looked down on by other people.DATES:
15-16 March 2019, 10:00-18:00 (Friday, Saturday)
Conditions of participation :
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 802225-26 January 2019 “When people drift apart – divorce and separation, an educational and systemic workshop”
DATES:
25-26 January 2019, 10:00-18:00 (Friday, Saturday)
Workshop Description:
The dynamics of divorces and separations differ depending on the stage of the relationship or marriage. The reason why people break off relationships at an early stage is usually very clear. Some earlier unknown facts are brought to light – the partner’s addiction or issues concerning relations between family members or the partners themselves become more apparent. The dynamics and reasons for filing divorces and separations at the later stages of a relationship or marriage are different.
Usually, partners decide to break off their relationship because they have neither agreed on core issues, developed a satisfactory relationship nor established respect, trust or a common life philosophy.The workshop will be devoted to the stages of separation, their consequences and to the ways of supporting people going through a divorce (or separation). We will focus on how self-destructive behaviours can be triggered by a divorce or separation and how to deal with them.
We will try to find good-quality sources of support for all people who have the courage or the need to go through a divorce or separation.We will look into ways of establishing a new, inner home after obtaining a divorce.
This educational and systemic workshop combines the Lifeline Technique with knowledge gained from Total Biology and psychoenergetic analysis conducted with the use of regulatory thermography. It also includes a study of the client’s genogram.
Observers, i.e. contestants who do not take part in systemic constellations, also benefit from the healing field, which is created according to the rule of sacred geometry.Recipients of the workshop:
This workshop is designed for:
All people who
are suffering distress and pain after divorce or separation
got stuck in the process of recovering from their loss and have not come to terms with it.
Conditions of participation
Contestants are required to make a prepayment of PLN 300 either in person or by means of a bank transfer 10 days before the workshop begins.
Respecting the terms of the therapy contract.
An on-line or personal consultation with one of the therapists working at the Centre is required for all contestants who have never had therapeutic sessions with Teresa Ossowska (payment is due for the consultation).
The patients take responsibility for themselves and their therapy (Adult position).
Attendance is required throughout the entire
VENUE:ADITUS Centre for Psychotherapy and Mental Rehabilitation
Madalińskiego st. 67/2,
Warsaw, Poland
APPLICATION:by email aditus@aditus.pl
(Please give your contact phone number) .
or a personal telephone call
+48 608 529 968 ,
I also reply to text messages
Małgorzata Krupińska
+48 503 081 181 (best SMS ) lub
malgorzata.krupinska@aditus.plattending therapist:
COST:
Constellations— 900 PLN
Observer— 400 PLNPAYMENT:
cash or account:
Teresa Ossowska Ośrodek Psychoterapii
98 1240 6133 1111 0000 4806 8022Mother-in-law’s shoes
If you are in the relationship in the second cycle of your life (beginning at the age of 49) you enter into
the unsolved aspects of your husband’s (partner’s) relationship with his parent or parents. If the man has
not been satiated with his mother then he may redirect his unfulfilled needs to you.What does it mean do be satiated with mother?
It means to consciously acknowledge both the light and the dark sides of the relationship with the mother.
To acknowledge that the mother supported his development in the strong and authentic manner. To
acknowledge the insatiation in the relationship with the mother, the disappointments and areas where
mother’s love was conditional and not full. The mother’s conditional love towards her child may have
been the result of the overburdening, disappointment with the marriage, working like a slave and the
inability to express the love or to accept the child.If the man has not acknowledged the process of separation with his own mother, then he will, most likely,
transfer his need onto his wife, either consciously or subconsciously. This may manifest in his desire for
the wife to fulfill his needs in a certain way he needs then to be fulfilled or in redirection of his needs in
such way that the woman will get his whole grief and unworked bitterness towards his mother.In this situation the man thinks that women are mean, greedy and repulsive. Yet often the mother is
outside the man’s analysis, she is either idealised or rejected from the spectrum of the possibilities. In
both casesTHE WOMAN WEARS THE MOTHER-IN-LAW’S SHOES.
If the woman has separated from her mother correctly she will not allow to be put into “the mothers-in-
law’s shoes”. She will not try to artificially and excessively satisfy her starved for love husband, she maycook him a sweet meal but she will not sacrifice herself. The woman will not be either better or worse
than her mothers-in-law, she will not be baited into proving herself to the mother-in-law.WHEN THE WOMAN WILL NOT ENTER THE MOTHER-IS-LAW’S SHOES.
The woman will be herself, will not agree to be compared and will not enter the role of a begrudging
aggressor, neither will not enter the role of a sorrowful, unfulfilled, undeveloped, inconsolable and
complacent person. Most often then not, we are or are going to be daughters-in-law.
During the workshop women of different ages, at different stages of the relationship may work. We marry
also our mothers-in-law.
Men interested in building a healthy marriage and separating correctly from the mother may also work.Teresa Ossowska
